"Suicide is not a Joke"

Weezy Bear·9/5/2018, 6:42:53 AM·1 votes·2,296 views

I don't think suicide is a joke, obviously it's real. But this is the only argument I see here whenever someone brings up the topic of getting banned for "jokingly telling their friend to kill themselves." I feel like context is a real issue in league's report system, and it's completely unwarranted to ban someone for making a joke in any circumstance as long as it is not blatantly racist, sexist, homophobic, etc. Obviously racism, sexism, homophobia, and suicide/depression are all real issues. That doesn't make them taboo discussions. If someone is sarcastically telling their friend to kill themselves in the in-game chat, there should be absolutely no problem, as long as the friend is actually unhurt by what they said and they're "in on the joke." Doing something such as this does not mean someone is "making a joke out of suicide." That is the stupidest argument, it's just a cop-out. It doesn't even make sense. Same thing goes for "joking about suicide is promoting self-harm." How? It's superstition at its finest.

Don't get me wrong. I understand why Riot would remove someone from the game if they are spreading hate, telling randoms to kill themselves and that such. Joking with a friend doesn't spread hate to anyone. As much as that random top laner might feel inclined to report someone for typing "kys" in the game chat, there really wasn't any need to report them in the first place, as they weren't disturbing the playing field or spreading hate. The playerbase is hyper-sensitive to this phrase, and I swear to god, saying it in any context will get you banned.

-this all coming from a perma-banned draven main that told my janna support to kill themselves - no sarcasm. yes I regret it, please don't bring it up

[sg-poppy]

edit: Also just realized I posted this from my perma-banned account and not my new account so whoops

21 Comments

Aneirin9/5/2018, 6:46:42 AM15 votes

If you truly want to joke with a friend about something bannable, use whisper. Doing it in chat is like yelling it out on a bus and expecting no-one to notice. You can't do it and then complain when they take offence.

CharDeeMcDenniz9/5/2018, 10:15:01 AM8 votes

wrong, sorry, there's no appropriate context to joke about suicide in a public space with strangers, and if you think there is then you're part of the problem

if the dbag in you just HAS to make that suicide joke with your friend, do it in a private msg

Jo0o9/5/2018, 10:27:47 AM6 votes

Why give the benefit of the doubt, though? If you get caught out by the enemy team, and I say "Kill yourself IRL draven" in response... do you assume I'm joking?

As for the recipient being unhurt... you still gotta consider the folks in chat with you. My desk at work happens to be back-to-back with a close friend of mine who got the job at the same time as me, but we sure as hell don't make the same jokes at work as we do in private.

King Braum9/5/2018, 6:47:57 AM4 votes

context is important though too hard to detect through an automated system. the same also comes with the fact that through a game chat some people might not pick up on jokes like that.

Smokin Penguin9/5/2018, 6:53:25 AM3 votes

You guys don't get it do you, IT'S A BOT the report system is a BOT

It sees that you got reported a bunch of times and it springs into action. That's it

EvilDustMan9/5/2018, 11:51:47 AM2 votes

I will point out to everyone here. Using kys will escalate you to a 14 day ban from wherever you are, not a permaban.

That means OP was already on a 14 day ban.

BrightWîngs9/5/2018, 11:33:25 AM1 votes

youre right in the right circumstance a joke is a joke if it is ACTUALLY intended to be a joke all types of humor should not be frowned upon whether you like the joke or not everyone has a right to their own humor I dont care for 9/11 jokes but its still a joke and I dont hate the people who make them

ned the kled9/5/2018, 3:48:00 PM1 votes

HAHAAAA KYSSSSS HAhAHAHAAHA

looks fucking weird telling you jokingly to kys instead of adding you and whispering it to you doesn't it?

TheZacStreetBoys9/5/2018, 9:30:18 PM1 votes

Other people around you don't understand this. Maybe people who witness you make these kinds of comments are suffering from depression and don't like to see their issue mocked by using it as a joke. As others have said, if you want to, just whisper to the friend.