Do You Have to Be a Bad Person to Have a Good Rank?
Opinion: People in higher elos tend to not be nice.
#This is an entirely opinion based of off personal experiences.
Most, but not all, players who are Gold or higher tend to just be bad people. I just encountered a game with a Gold player who essentially gave up the game because top and mid had bad match-ups, and like expectation would dictate, lost the lane. After the dust settles I talk to the player about not playing the game like a team game. He went on to banter about how top and mid lost so the game was lost but I told him that even if the lanes are losing or have lost, try to help them or help others (he was jungle in that game). At the end of the conversation he told me to join his playmates to allow him to show off his true skill in the mid lane, but I could honestly careless since A) I was in a trio queue and B) I didn't want to spend time with a player who had such an elitist attitude that he was better than everyone because he had the least amount of deaths and was plat (even though he has never finished a season with plat). I leave and I assume he wanted to continue his belligerence because he sent me a friend request (and by no means would it have been a "friend" request). I refused, but then another player who I believe to be his friend sent me a request. The jungler must've really wanted to get his message out so I accepted this unknown player's (who was plat6 in s6) request. If you'd like to see the conversation then it'll be here, but if you're a TL;DR person, he called me low elo trash for believing in a team-oriented stlye and saying that to a "plat" player instead of submitting like the low elo trash I am. I guess he didn't know I only respect people that are respectable.
Needless to say, I didn't report either one of them because I felt bad for them and I still have no intention to whine about it to Riot. They just became one of the many "high elo therefore I can tell you what you're supposed to do." I honestly do not understand this mentality of "because you're higher rank, what you say is clearly the right thing to do and you can never do wrong," but I see it come up time and time again when players try to justify their statements with "I'm x rank" where "x" is higher than your rank. It is quite ridiculous and lends no weight to your argument. This is because it is not necessarily an individual skill based rank. Many will tell you that it (your rank) shows your ability to carry the game and what not but it doesn't. It really doesn't. What about the four other players on your team that you just carried? They certainly did not carry the game, but they still get the LP do they not? The rank comes from those you play with and against, giving your rank a chance element which by all means is not fair, but is unavoidable.
It's a joke amongst my group of friends that if any of us want to get Gold or above, we need to be assholes, which is not in our nature. This statement however, like most sterotypes, has basis in world one observed. We have played many games with Gold players or the occasional Platinum player on our team or the enemy's, but they all seem to have this common ground with being toxic or rude in some manner. They are sometimes elitist, like the couple mentioned in the anecdote. They are sometimes defeatist and whine about the fact that the game is over within the first 10 minutes. No one ever seems to be a helping hand, only Scars, but do not be mistaken as there are some good people in high elos though few and far between. Every master was once a novice.
I'd like you hear your opinions on the possible corrolation between a player's personality and their rank.
-Firefly