Is it hard to be nice?

Negativity·2/3/2018, 1:39:33 AM·6 votes·410 views

Is it really that hard to just have fun on a video game? I almost made master last season"having fun" playing AP Sona. I mean if I can do it, everyone should be able to. It's just a video game.. :)

Try to enjoy your past time, Goodluck on the Rift

7 Comments

Six Inch Heals2/3/2018, 7:07:07 AM2 votes

Is it hard to realize that essentially, nobody owes you shit?

This will get you further in life. Trust me.

Remove Jungle2/3/2018, 2:17:02 AM1 votes

It depends on the situation.

2 things that tilt me hard:

  1. My jungler dying to my enemy laner. this one will put me full tilt. it really annoys me when it happens.

  2. Bot lane. depending on what role I play. if I see that the ADC or support I am playing with on bot isn't good it tilts me 2 I most likely will roam hard with a support and then get flamed for not helping the ADC.

I hate it when I lose lane because of teammates I can't seem to get over it. it tilts me. if enemy laner beats the shit out of me and I am going 0/10 I will not get tilted because I know he is better then me he deserves it. but men if my teammates mess up my lane it puts me on tilt.

Don't get me wrong if I play mid lane and top lane goes 0/5 doesn't bother me. it is just the laning phase that I prefer 1v1 most of the time.

sh1be2/3/2018, 2:22:11 AM1 votes

It's hard to keep your cool. If you start out the game nice, but someone feeds and becomes toxic I personally think it's hard not to flame because they are playing so badly.

So I think everyone can be nice, but I think it's just hard to maintain, especially after many games of "being nice" and having horrible players.

JustaNewb2/3/2018, 2:27:42 AM1 votes

I'd say "act like an adult," but most players now days aren't... soooo...

Chermorg2/3/2018, 3:05:17 AM1 votes

You know, with the way kids are raised nowadays, i think it can be said to be hard to be nice. I was lucky to have parents who raised me to be considerate of others in all situations, and that if I was angry, it was better to not make it known to others. We all have a better life in society when we don’t be angry at each other. That’s a fact.

However, as I have a sister in high school right now, kids nowadays are raised to be combative and argumentative. Kids nowadays are told that they’re right - they’re the best - they deserve it. They’re given everything - and they don’t have to take crap from anyone. They’re raised to instantly assume someone else is wrong and not them - and not to look at the bigger picture. They’re raised to think that it’s never their fault. I think this is a big barrier to being nice and makes it very hard for these people to be nice - they simply don’t understand reality as they were raised in a fantasy of “i’m Always right”.


I’m not saying everyone’s raised this way now, and in fact there’s many who are raised properly to respect and be nice to others. However, I think it’s a large part of the problem and makes it quite hard for this type of person to be nice to others.

Ab0ut30Ninjas2/3/2018, 7:12:21 AM1 votes

its not hard to be nice. its hard to be happy while losing.. badly lol . my last game i had a 0/8 illioa, 0/9 cait and a 1/7 morgana . all feeding yet we are suppose to take this and smile and grin :). in a ranked game.. where its "suppose " to be balanced. but we are suppose to be nice and smile losing and say hey i accept being a loser and forever being low elo never being able to play in a higher elo because the "balanced que" . but SMILE anyways right :) losing is FUN :D Shaco