One last question.
Do we have to play to win? Or do we have to not play to lose?
As far as I can tell, the rules say no inting, feeding, things like that. But you can play whatever you want in any role, you can (relatively) go wild with your build, spells, etc. Which is to say, you don't have to be optimal. Wouldn't that include effort? You don't have to play in an effort to make some amazing from-behind comeback, but at least you can't roll over and lose- no making the game end faster by letting the enemy win or whatnot. According to rules.
At least, that's what I think.
Also... I'm glad I got to discuss differing points of views these last bunch of months- at some point, I defended/backed up just about everyone here including rujitra (several times actually). We certainly have different views on the best way to behave, but in some way all you regulars have helped here.
Moderators: Thank you for being the role models of civility. I gave you guys more guff than you deserved.