Toxic vs. A little trash talking
I think the word Toxic is getting used a little too freely. Remember that League of Legends is at the core a competitive game, its going to draw out some strong emotions from people, because it is a really emotional game.
If it is going to be treated like a sport, which I think it should be. The players are going to have to thicken up their skin a little bit and not report every player who doesn't win lane and carry the game. I'll be the first person to blame myself for a bad play in any given game. I'll even take credit for something that went wrong when it isn't my fault. At the end of the day I want to win, if you calling me a 'bronzer' for a boneheaded play helps you get that hate off your chest and focus on the rest of the game, i'm totally fine with that, and i'm not going to report you.
The things that in my opinion are not ok and I will report someone for. Harping on someone the ENTIRE game for a mistake that happened 15-20 minutes ago. Excessive cursing - a little is ok if you ask me, just don't over do it. There is an option that hides these bad words if you are too sensitive to see them. Giving up because someone disagrees with you. AFKing because you're not the one who is carrying the game. Blaming other players all game long.
I think player emotions during a normal game of league aren't going to remain level, there are going to be highs and lows, and may illicit some trash talking. If we start labeling any negative or critical comment in a game as toxic, or start reporting players we simply do not agree with, the word loses its real meaning.
A toxic player isn't someone who is toxic one game, and not toxic the next, a toxic player is should be someone who is CONSISTENTLY toxic. The other really odd thing, and maybe this is because i'm getting on the older side now, and i think the league crowd is a little younger than me. The difference in what we consider offensive. I grew up in a really...rural and politically incorrect area (most of the time). I'm seriously desensitized to a lot of words people consider offensive. I imagine other players could be like that too, perma-banning someone for a first offense, even for racial or homosexual slurs, still seems wrong to me. I mean, 14 ban, ok, let them at least know that it isn't acceptable for this crowd.
Now before you ask me where it is acceptable, because that seems to be a popular counter point. I played a lot of sports as a teen, there was always trash talking and name calling, some of it would have probably made Gangplank wince; this dude is sailor if missed the correlation. That is part of a competitive environment. We were always good sports at the end of the game, everyone shook hands (the OG GG).
Lets all just take a step back before we go "OMG PERMABAN FOR BAD WORDS!"
Commence the down votes :p