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Yes, it is subjective. Players decide for themselves if they think you're being problematic, and they report you or don't accordingly; if they don't think you're being a jerk/toxic, they don't report you and the system won't care what you did.
When you get reported frequently for negative behavior then it adds up, but if you're infrequently negative/toxic then you won't get punished. Everybody is a little toxic sometimes; it's the people that are that way as their normal behavior that get punished (extreme behavior can of course result in a much more swift and severe punishment).
You seriously don't have to be fake nice to not get punished, you just don't have to be condescending and rude to everyone all the time, or intentionally ruining the game for others.
Thank you for admitting this. I can't tell you how many times I've had people harass me, tell me to kill myself, etc in my games, and I don't report them for it. Why? Because it's a videogame and it's not worth getting upset over. There are so many people who should've been permabanned ages ago for the stuff they say, but people just don't do it, because we like to think that no matter how rude we were to each other, it's just a game and we should all just forget about it.
Someone on this board said you can be punished for even 1 game of being "toxic". Even if you have honor level 5 with years of good behavior 1 bad game somehow erases all of it.