[{quoted}](name=Beauty in FOUR,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=igzAyVlJ,comment-id=,timestamp=2017-12-20T05:57:14.674+0000)
I just don't get it. They're chill one minute and we're having a good time, and either I do bad, or they did bad. Never once did I flame them, or did they flame me. Started acting like rude dudes at the end game screen and bam they're off my friends list. I just don't understand it. [cass-cry] [sg-soraka]
Just talked to one person that removed me from their list. Dudes an actual asshole "We weren't winning" lmao. "The Discord was boring you barely talked." To reduce background noise and I didn't know my mic was muted. Glad hes off my list.
Not surprising. Most people these days don't care about friends. They just care about elo, and taking advantage of people to get what they want. No one will admit this, because admitting the truth hurts. Not everyone is this way. The problem is, to find the people that truly care about friendship, requires you to get hurt, often many, many times, until you finally find someone who has a little dignity. But by then, your heart is often so black and corrupted from all the negativity and hate, that you won't even trust them, or care.
Even in normal blind pick games, hardly anyone cares about friends. The games are usually one sided stompfest blowouts, and even if you win, no one adds each other, and if you do try to add them, they just refuse. But at least you may have a better chance than in ranked, where everyone is either a toxic jerk, greedy, selfish, or "White knights." (Again there are exceptions. Just don't expect to make friends with ANYONE who is higher than low gold, ever).
You have to get very lucky, or have EXTREMELY good interpersonal skills to find an actual friend. And then you had better hope they don't just throw you out when you are no longer going 25-7-14 each game.
Welcome to the 21st century.
