I've Had 2 People Remove me from their friendslist/block me after a loss

I find that a loss is usually what it takes to bring out somebody's true colors. I've unfriended more people after losing than anything else. Its easy to be all smiles when we're stomping our lane, after all.

I had one guy message me to play with him all the time and when we finally do he goes mid and then threatens to AFK after dying 4 times and calling our jungler all sorts of obscenities. Naturally the jungler went AFK because of it so it was a 3v5 and yea, he's not on my friends list anymore.

[sg-ahri-3]

This doesn't seem like the case with you but I just wanted to share a perspective on why I personally remove some people after a loss.

[sg-soraka]

ya it's very VERY hard to make friends in this game. I have 1 guy on my list who i met at the beginning of the year but most the time it's "oh good game lets be friends" then we win a game then lose a game and then I'm blocked. It's sad really, but with the way the ranked system works I understand it. my best friend is B5, do you think I'd ever play ranked with him?!?! the answer is no. sure I'd play norms but norms feel pointless to me and to him. league is a 1 man street (most of the time)

This happens more than it does not. Don't think much of it, some people are just salty

[{quoted}](name=Beauty in FOUR,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=igzAyVlJ,comment-id=,timestamp=2017-12-20T05:57:14.674+0000)

I just don't get it. They're chill one minute and we're having a good time, and either I do bad, or they did bad. Never once did I flame them, or did they flame me. Started acting like rude dudes at the end game screen and bam they're off my friends list. I just don't understand it. [cass-cry] [sg-soraka]

Just talked to one person that removed me from their list. Dudes an actual asshole "We weren't winning" lmao. "The Discord was boring you barely talked." To reduce background noise and I didn't know my mic was muted. Glad hes off my list.

Not surprising. Most people these days don't care about friends. They just care about elo, and taking advantage of people to get what they want. No one will admit this, because admitting the truth hurts. Not everyone is this way. The problem is, to find the people that truly care about friendship, requires you to get hurt, often many, many times, until you finally find someone who has a little dignity. But by then, your heart is often so black and corrupted from all the negativity and hate, that you won't even trust them, or care.

Even in normal blind pick games, hardly anyone cares about friends. The games are usually one sided stompfest blowouts, and even if you win, no one adds each other, and if you do try to add them, they just refuse. But at least you may have a better chance than in ranked, where everyone is either a toxic jerk, greedy, selfish, or "White knights." (Again there are exceptions. Just don't expect to make friends with ANYONE who is higher than low gold, ever).

You have to get very lucky, or have EXTREMELY good interpersonal skills to find an actual friend. And then you had better hope they don't just throw you out when you are no longer going 25-7-14 each game.

Welcome to the 21st century.

i just came back to this game about a month and a half ago. used to play from 2010 to about 2012 and holy shit......this game is full of a bunch of crybabies now! jesus christ kids, grow a pair for crying out loud, everyone's not gonna be your friend. this is real life not a fucking utopia, and it never will be.

Some people don't really control their emotions, get frustrated and let it out on others. Don't think to much of it, just a reaction in a moment of frustration (btw people who do well usually not get frustrated even when losing..)

They don't deserve you anyway.

This happens a lot with girls that play league. Thots all of em. It's like we just went 4-1 in the normals but that last one being a loss is what makes you a psycho bitch?! Okay then.

People these days in all aspects of society just seem like trash. Especially the younger generation that makes up a good chunk of this game.

I could understand that I personally do get boring after a while do to situations for being a reason not wanting to play with me but whatever I won't dwell on an internet stranger's rage/block. I got a fine inner circle which makes this mediocre game fun when I get to play with them. I love them.

[katarina-love]

They don't deserve to be in your friend's =) Don't feel bad about it.

Ye I'll have a great game with someone they'll add me after, next game not so ho and they are either toxic or they unfriend me after for not playing as well. Like okay.

Probably had the misfortune of adding folk that can't handle losing.

Speaking for myself only:

losing a game is one thing. however, losing because you were clueless, and went (hypothetically) 1/10/3 ? I will block that fo sho'.

As a silver TF main my gameplay can be so inconsistent it hurts me. Like I'll dominate one game, and then feed my ass off the next. I've accepted friend requests after good games only to find the person removes me as soon as we have a bad game, one guy even called me boosted (I'M SILVER) so I've stopped accepting friend requests unless I actually enjoyed the player behind the champion rather than their KDA.

I think many people in this game are just plain abusive assholes. I refuse to be social. I refuse to make friends. And I refuse to play with familiar people, especially people I know in real life, because when the ones you actually know flame you, the continue the abuse even after the game is done.

I've been screamed at a lot, called worthless in real life for game shit. I can't even play with people I know without immediately going into ultra-stressed, hyper tilt mode. The worst thing is that it has rubbed off on me. At one point, I thought to myself, "No one is ever kind to me, why should I be kind to anyone else", and my attitude went to shit.

People in this game really, really suck. I'd just mute all, all the time, and keep to myself if I were you.

[{quoted}](name=Beauty in FOUR,realm=NA,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=igzAyVlJ,comment-id=,timestamp=2017-12-20T05:57:14.674+0000)

I just don't get it. They're chill one minute and we're having a good time, and either I do bad, or they did bad. Never once did I flame them, or did they flame me. Started acting like rude dudes at the end game screen and bam they're off my friends list. I just don't understand it. [cass-cry] [sg-soraka]

Just talked to one person that removed me from their list. Dudes an actual asshole "We weren't winning" lmao. "The Discord was boring you barely talked." To reduce background noise and I didn't know my mic was muted. Glad hes off my list.

The only people on my friend's list are people I know in real life.

I guess its neat that others meet "internet friends" but... that will never jive with me.

Some only link up after a good game. After it runs its course then they remove. Not sure if the case is the same.

Here i am having people on my friend list even tho all we do is flame eachother everytime we meet in Soloque.

I've only ever really made friends with people who I thought I could get more elo from duoing with compared to playing solo. For the most part, either I realize I'm better off climbing solo and stop playing with them, or they realize they are better off without me and stop playing with me. Its rare in my experience to meet someone who you can stay same-ish elo as and both continue to benefit from duoing together

Friends? You mean victims... "got axes, need victims" - draven

I add everyone after every game on this account, at 320 friends but never do games with any of them. I just go through the list removing <30 and now <35 and soon <40 level summoners to eventually try and hit like 200 ppl online at once by having the most active accounts on my list only. right now I'm at like 100 online most days. I have to say I must get over 30 game invites a day on average and random messages that I usually don't reply to. I don't even say anything when the ppl accept friend invites. it does come in handy having so many active friends for when the missions come out and I maxed out a club that I created off my list. idk pretty fun as a side project while just playing league normally.

You don't deserve them anyways

So your solution is to come onto the boards and cry about it? Have you tried giving them another chance, they were your friends after all, right? Sounds like you just immediately cut them off and never gave them a chance to apologize. You do realize that social interaction is a two way street, right? I ask because from your post, that seems like something that needed to be said.

Had that happen to me a couple of days ago when a Braum main added me. He saw my record with WW at the time(which I was doing amazing) so we played 2 games together: the first one we won and the second one we didn’t. The game we lost in he was flaming his ADC nonstop for dying a couple of time and flaming the mid laner just because he was telling him to calm down and relax. So the Braum main goes on Op.gg and starts stating people’s win rates on certain champs and flaming everyone for it. At that time I just muted the guy but from what the other guys were saying in chat they were defending my play as jungler. Sometimes it’s good when you get unfriended cause you won’t have to deal with tempermental folks who’s mood changes on the dime. There’s tilt but then there is toxicity and I know no one likes toxic people unless they are one.

a year ago I was on a winning streak with 2 people that added me and the first time we lost they told me I was garbage and that they carried me in all those games, but they're the ones that added me in the first place....