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Verbal abuse (the confession of flamer)

Imaginis·2/25/2016, 6:02:10 AM·1 votes·502 views

Hi! I am flamer. Made this topic because 2of my acc got perma banned and 3rd one got 2 week ban. I think that report system should be completely removed from game. at least reports about chat should be removed. and here is why - u know LOL is fun game. for me lol is complete fun game and less something competitive, i like to compete ofc, but i think that riot has gone too far, making this game too sportsmanlike. this game is about rekting someone, if u get rekt, especially ganked - ofc u will have emotions. and i dont feel neccesity to keep this emotions to myself, i would like to type in all chat - gj tryhard nerds. i don't know how about you, but for me if somebody tell that to me, i just feel so good, i know that i am rekting him hard and thats only makes me feel better. so its hard for me to imagine how it can be considered as verbal abuse, harasment or whatever. i almost never flame or blame teammates, at least while i didnt get my first permaban. now when i can't let my emotions go to opponents, who made me angry, i start to blame my own teammates, not really flaming, but - come on man gank - i am vs pantheon, or type in all chat - report our jungler for zero ganks. that is one point. another one - why would anyone get neggative expierence cause i am flamin him? no matter its my teammate or opponent - u know it isnt my flames that hurts, but his/her own attitude. why a man should be worried what other people think about him? or what say about him? u know who u are and that is all u need. probably problem is there that majority of people don't know who they really are. :( in real life i am a nice guy, even in virtual world i am quite nice. i used to play a lot of mmorpg games like lineage 2 and i never killed intentionally low level players or flame someone. i started to become a flamer when i started to play lol. i got flamed a lot, but i would like to say - what doesn't kill me makes me stronger. However i really never get hurted by opponents flame, only own teammates qqing that i suck or stml wasn't pleasureable. i remember good old days of lol, when in every game somebody flamed really hard. it was fun :) its allways pleasureable for me when opponents qq in all chat. but now - there is such a silence in chat. nobody really talks. i wonder why riot doesn't remove chat from game at all, since u can comunicate with pings. and mainly all u can type in chat is gl&hf or gg. thats it, type something more and probably u will get ur report. Riot has become like a mother for cry-babies somebody tells something to them and they report. he gets ban and league community become more and more nerdy, cause there is no more people with true emotions or they just hide emotions to not get ban. so what are ur thoughts, community? does it really cause u to have neggative exp. if opponent flames u cause u outplay him?

2 Comments

Oxsi2/25/2016, 9:39:51 AM1 votes

The thing is that not everyone has "Thick Skin". Blaming and Flaming others really sets a new mood to the game. People all have a saying in their head, That everyone is not perfect. So when you mess up, you would agree that yeah people aren't perfect. But when someone else is messing up There is no excuse. I've had multiple games where we could have won, but someone starts the blame train and argues. For example, I'm Brand against aKassadin, I'm out cs'ing. I'm putting out more damage in. I go in for the kill and a enemy Udyr comes in from behind me. I die. Afterwards I play safe, he continues to camp me. So I just cs my ass off and put out damage on Kassadin when I can. Never extend. I figure late game my team will dominate him. But the support goes "How is a brand losing lane to a Kassadin?" I never say anything back Because I used to be extremely toxic and would like to keep my profile. But later in the game when the enemies fed ADC and Top laner are dominating its my fault. In all chat my support and adc "GG report Brand!'

[zombie-brand-mindblown]

Also this part: " report our jungler for zero ganks. that is one point. another one - why would anyone get neggative expierence cause i am flamin him? no matter its my teammate or opponent - u know it isnt my flames that hurts, but his/her own attitude. why a man should be worried what other people think about him?"

I think you have the wrong aspect on it. Its not so much of what others think of them. For example lets say you are at school in a class that you like, you don't know anyone. But you are stuck with these classmates for a period of time and you have to do a group project and someone messes up. You call them a "fucking idiot" of course its going to set a whole new mood to the room. Just humans are species that grow and flourish. Part of that is learning from mistakes. If a Teacher tells their student they are a "Fuck-Up" does not help him grow. I myself go into games and I do mess up. I tell my team "I'm sorry and I'll play safer." I'll have like Wukong Top who just dominates and Carries I say Thank you for carrying I honor him and Who knows I might gift him. He could have been toxic but he wasn't negative, therefore the game went on and we didn't argue.

[slayer-pantheon-thumbs]

I mentioned that I am/ was a toxic player. What woke me up was a ban on my first account. When I see people rage I don't care at all. I used to keep them going. But Now I just don't use the chat box anymore. Mainly Because I have spent too much money on this account and I'm not gonna get banned because a idiot whines and reports me for saying the truth.

Overall the thing I absolutely do not support are people who tell others to kill themselves or harm themselves in any way. I often don't care enough to report but if someone just out the blue says "go drink bleach." That's just a no no. LoL

Anyways You are you're own individual you express yourself your own way. Riot supports Player Individuality so long that it doesn't harm another player. A quote I saw said "You never know what someone else is going through." That right there is the Bread and Butter of The reporting system. Someone going through a tough time may want to play some Normals and get their mind off things but they get flamed and are told to go "KYS." Just not right for them to be called trash/ useless, because they are on tilt. But its a Normals.

[slayer-jinx-wink]

All of this is just advice/ thoughts of mine.

Kei1432/25/2016, 10:24:16 AM1 votes

and i was expecting an apology post. guess I was wrong.

[zombie-nunu-bummed]

EDIT: btw, people don't talk because there is not enough time to chat, this game is pretty fast paced and they'd rather spend time moving than typing.