LoL fruitless as a competitive hobby
I am a grownup that plays competitive video games as a hobby. I play to rank up and love everything but top. Despite what the responses here may say, I'm not terrible at this game. I've done well in many other games competitively, but I can't seem to grow in this one. I've scraped the edges of plat last season and again this one but can't seem to break through.
Despite my quantity of games played this season, I live a pretty balanced life (gainfully employed, married with a spawn). I feel like I should be able to rise above the toxicity of this community, carry above/out of it. There is no mechanism in place from Riot to separate the cream of the social crop from the dredge of these players. Every time I get into a game and someone tells me they're on a chat-ban so watch for pings, I wonder why Riot is making me play with someone that clearly does not invest themselves at the same level as I do.
I could spew out a super sweet diatribe for all of you on the topic, or offer some meager half-ideas that would solve only my problem, but the reality is that this game/community is a wasteland at all levels. More importantly, it's Riot's fault. I like this game, I like the Moba format, I love the growth in esports. I want to be the eclectic guy that shuns traditional sports in favor of sharpening my own skillset and following a cool esports team. I took a day off of work yesterday at Gold I with 46LP to push into plat over a long weekend, and I was met with the worst of these boards' personalities for the past two days.
What I want, is an answer. I want to talk to a Riot employee about alienating the people on these boards. It needs to be remedied, I don't want to start over with a new game. I want to grow my skills and play with other people whose focus is the same, and the current status of this game does not allow for that. I'm horribly disappointed, both in myself (for not carrying some noobs) and in Riot (for stranding me amongst the wreckage of this small subset of the player-base).