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I actually need serious help with my behaviour

CARNAGE UNBANNED·10/20/2019, 8:25:44 PM·1 votes·4,683 views

I am a 15 year old guy from Canada that started playing this game when I was 9. I never had a problem with getting banned until I was around 12. When I was 12 years old I got 2 accounts permanently banned. I made a new account.

On that new account I played for nearly 3 years ban free (but not chat restriction free) and last year I got that account banned. Ever since I got that account banned I have gotten 14 more accounts PERMANENTLY banned.

When I disable chat, I will enable it to flame someone. When I use a script that doesn't allow me to chat, I will go out of my way to disable the script to re-enable chat. When I get chat restrictions I use the only messages I get to flame. When I /mute all I /mute all again to see what people are typing. Sometimes I run it down mid if a teammate flames me.

I've been trying to hit Diamond this entire season and so far I have gotten 3 accounts to Platinum 2 but once they hit Platinum 2 they are banned. I am simply too toxic to make it to Diamond, that account had a 70% winrate in Plat 2 with around 100 games. I don't know what to do. Not matter what I try to do I get banned, I can't reform its simply impossible for me.

I feel that player shouldn't be banned just for being toxic in a video game to a random stranger they'll never have to see again, I really don't get it, but if I don't start respecting Riots rules I'll never get to Diamond.

Does anyone have real advice to just stop toxicity?

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10 Comments

rujitra10/20/2019, 8:29:27 PM3 votes

It's called self control. Nobody can teach you that. You need to work on yourself and your attitude - nobody can help you "cheat".

Akenero10/21/2019, 1:49:46 PM2 votes

Best way to stop yourself from being toxic is to have this mindset It's just a game, and flaming won't help me win. If you're losing hard, just find some ways to enjoy yourself.

Yami No Ignis10/21/2019, 1:51:07 PM2 votes

just dont type. You get reported and banned for anything nowadays. Even criticizing or asking question will get you banned. No point in typing since peoples voices are silenced.

KingFu10/20/2019, 10:06:09 PM1 votes

To be honest if you are that toxic, then you deserve the ban. But, in my true opinion toxicity are everywhere. They're on youtube, classrooms, and even at work places. We can't simply be nice to each others because we have our own opinions and goals. I think that the mute system should be highlight more than banning someone permanently. If someone is being toxic just mute. That's more than anyone can ask in the real world. In fact, it's worse in the real world because you can't mute toxicity especially and your bully sits next to you for an hour class time.

Kyaza10/21/2019, 3:16:17 AM1 votes

maybe for me its a bit easier but I sometimes type out what i want to say, take a deep breath and delete it. just to get my annoyance out of my system. from what it sounds like that wont work for you but i wish you all the best in trying to improve

Cadynn10/20/2019, 8:28:57 PM1 votes

In the game's current state no. However I was once like you are now, however I don't flame much anymore. I only flame when we already lost the game.

Faofs10/21/2019, 10:45:57 PM1 votes

Don't want to brag about it, but I'm known to be as the ultimate tilt-proof guy. I've never flamed in my life. It's just impossible to tilt me, no matter what. There are times where I get dissapointed(bad plays, poor communication with teamates etc.), but definitely not upset. Of course this has its toll. I never took the game too seriously,so I usually ended up in silver and gold has been my highest rank yet. But I simply do not care. It's all about the mindset.

I play non-meta champs. I crack jokes even when my team (including me) feed and lose the game. I enjoy every moment of the game and it's always been a gg for me.

You should try it too. I know it sounds hard but you have to realize that no matter what you type, you can't change the course of the game. Instead of foul language try to use objective criticism. With a good attitude you'll avoid getting into arguements with your team. Don't force yourself into disabling the chat; it's important when you try to communicate. Instead enable it and when you feel the urge to cuss at other just say to yourself "NO, I won't do it". Pissing of your teamates only makes things worse.

As you grow up it'll be easier for you to control yourself, so don't stress over it. So here are my 2 cents, hopefully I'll see you in the rift [poppy-wink]

DatJest10/20/2019, 8:56:47 PM1 votes

Take a break. Take a long break if need be. I used to be toxic as well. Didn't play for a few months cause I didn't have time nor did I want to. Had new habits and I just didn't feel like playing. Now when I've come back I just feel a lot more chill and don't feel like there's a need to flame. If I'm really pissed off I'll say something like "wtf r u doing" but that's it. This is something only you can fix.

5 Dollar Holler10/20/2019, 9:37:32 PM1 votes

What I did is start playing a mode I don't care about. For example, I care about climbing in Ranked Solo/Duo. Normals, Ranked Flex, etc? A win, a loss, who cares. Plus while I'm gold Ranked Solo/Duo, it placed me in Bronze Ranked Flex, so I could play Leona Jungle and still win. If you play that long enough, your brain stops making the connection between "caring so much I rage" and playing the game.

As a result of this I'm higher Honor than I've ever been.