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HELP ME WITH TOXICITY OF MINE SOMEONE PLZ

Fatty1012·12/26/2016, 4:17:22 PM·3 votes·876 views

Now im being honest. I am a toxic player but i wish to not. I have a very short temper when it comes to leaguye because i love to win and i hate people who make me lose. I wish that i dont speak in chat but i do. I thinknk ive been getting reported a few times but idk. I have one last chance left and i want really dont want to get perm banned on this account because i spent so much money and as a child i dont want to get bannmed. Now this is just an idea but can you guys plz give me a chat restriction up to a few msges per game so i dont become toxic? Please i feel like my mouth blabbers because i get so tilted when my team is so boosted. I really dont want to lose this account and plz if u guys cant do that idea, can any1 explain to me how i can be more positive, Last game when i was playing MF i got so toxic saying how bad my sup was.... This is christmas and now i reallyt dont wanna get punished for the last time. Plz dont ban me and if im not, plz give me a good idea as to how i can be less toxic. Thank u riot.Also its chirstmas iuf people reported me today plz dont punish me.. I understand how i messed up and now to make me less toxic im gonna be playing ranked so i dont see low elo players. Now plz give me jusit 1 more 1 MORE chance i love this game...

16 Comments

BudgetMessiah12/26/2016, 4:20:02 PM2 votes

At the beginning of your game, type: /mute all

swordofsun12/26/2016, 4:48:48 PM2 votes

Turn off all chat in your setting.

/mute all at the beginning of every game, pings are good enough for communicating

I've seen it mentioned in passing that you can bind your chat key to something besides the enter key and then disable that key. I'm not entirely sure how this works, but perhaps look into it.

Find another way to get your frustration out. Say things out loud to your computer. I'll talk to my dog about my game if I'm frustrated. My boyfriend will frequently type things out in chat and then erase everything, just typing it out makes him feel better. If you're playing with a friend maybe talk to each other on your phones or a chat program.

You can do it!

Edit: As for being more positive, make an effort to acknowledge when people do good things. If you don't disable your chat altogether a quick wp or gj when someone does something good can do a lot. Complimenting someone's skin if you like it or it's unusual. Start the game with a glhf. Little things like that can get your mind in the right space. You'll be looking for the good things instead of the bad. Maybe your support messed up their skill shot, but they came through with a clutch redemption. Ignore the miss and compliment the redemption play. Maybe your top lost lane, but their tp play saved bot and got a tower, focus on the good.

It's hard to focus on the good things when it's so very easy to get pissed off at the mistakes. It can be very rewarding to do so though. Just remember how you felt the last time someone noticed that you did well. Pass that feeling on.

GoleBilon12/26/2016, 7:35:40 PM2 votes

you can change the size of chat to 1 pixel ( tutorials on YT ) and then you wont be able to type. Mute all works mostly but when smbd will spamm you with pings its hard to resist to unmute and tell him to "fucking stop " and as we know word fuck triggers tribunal and you will get banned

LatetotheRace12/29/2016, 11:23:35 PM2 votes

3 steps you can follow if you want to not get banned again.

Mute players and keep out of chat. Yeah, I know /mute all sounds kind of stupid and gimmicky but I promise it works. When you detect even a hint of toxicity/stupidity in the pre-game lobby just go ahead and mute everyone when the game starts. ALSO, it's 100% acceptable to get mad at players, and I am in now way above that. But here's what you need to remember. Don't put it in chat, ever. Just communicate with pings, as that's what the higher tiers do anyway. If you need to, bind chat to a random and hard to reach key, or even a joystick button. This way when you feel the want to chat, you will have to think about it first or simply be unable to do so.
Stay out of ranked. Right now it sounds like ranked is just a bit too much for you. Just chill and play some aram/ normals for the time being so you can get used to players either trolling or just being bad. When you re-enter ranked keep the same "normals" mindset because even if you lose a game, it's not a big deal. You're not on your promos for challenger here man, it's ok.
Look for the next game. If you know you're going to lose a game, don't sweat it. Just play your best until it's over, and go on to the next one. You can also take a 10 minute break between every game just to relax and look at any short comings you had.

Hope this helps you out, and I hope to see you on the fields of justice!

Hryna12/26/2016, 10:38:22 PM1 votes

Why don't you take a break from your main account until you figure this out?

grug12/27/2016, 3:31:28 AM1 votes

no problem br0

toxicity is fine, don't let riot fool you into thinking its bad.

toxicity is the by-product of THE DESIRE TO WIN usually, otherwise people are just toxic for the lulz.

you can be toxic as long as you follow these guidelines:

-don't tell people to kill themselves -don't threaten someones life i.e. murder -don't be too racist -stop telling other people to report other people IN-GAME, do it in post-game chat

another poster said something about making positive comments to your team. LOL, don't do this. Keep them on edge and let it feel like they're on the verge of losing the game at any moment because its true and low ELO is very unstable. Neutrality trumps positivity, If you have great self-control then try to play the game by not typing at all or type as least as possible.

I know what I'm saying, I am a veteran of over 800 bronze games in season 6 which was arguably the worst season thus far with the clusterfuck dynamic queue bringing raging to a new high.

Driv0n12/27/2016, 8:41:00 AM1 votes

If you think it would help you, I don't mind playing a few games with you. If you start getting mad and start typing in chat, I will point it out so you notice and can stop typing. :)

Try seeing if it helps you to start laughing at your teammate's mistakes. Usually when I start getting frustrated at my teammates, I try to see the humour in the situation and force myself to laugh at what they are doing (LOL really Teemo, why did you decide to break stealth right then, really?? haha). This way, I stop being angry and start laughing at the silly mistakes that people (myself included) are doing. Everyone is going to dumb things at some point, so you really might as well enjoy the free entertainment (just don't type it in chat).

Driv0n12/29/2016, 11:13:47 PM1 votes

Driv0n (the 0 in the middle is a zero)

grug12/26/2016, 7:39:52 PM1 votes

here's how you avoid being toxic:

win your lane, don't group

ks every kill.

fuck your team, you are the carry and you are the best in the game. any time that you help your team they will probably disappoint you. only come to teamfights to clean up all the kills.