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I'm about to be TOXIC (please help)

FatSexyBabe·8/12/2019, 10:15:45 AM·6 votes·9,058 views

Hello all,

i need ur help.

ive been playing on and off since season 2 and never considered this game seriously. Even now, now that i understand the game better.

I have quit some easy games, and games i thought unwinable, and others i just didnt give a shit (which gave me some bans (5 to 20 minutes before queue time) over and over and over again. I deserved them all, and trust me, I will continue to afk (quit game, rage quit, call it how u want it) after this post. This is not the issue i wanna talk here.

The issue I wanna talk here, is about toxicity. Over the years, NEVER have i been toxic. NEVER. Even with a perfectly winnable game, with stupid teammates that do stupid stuff, never have i been toxic. The worst i would do would clip it, show it to friends, and laugh about it. But never would I take it as a failure, or as something that bothered me, which would trigger my toxicity.

Recently, I've become toxic. And no, its not because i climbed the ladder. On the account I play right now i am Bronze. The highest i got was gold 1 (so no im not that good but more than 50% of players are gold or lower).

I enjoy playing mid or jg and trying to break the meta because i think the elo im playing is easy. I can play janna mid with an ally 0/10 rengo jg and still enjoy the game. I can play leona jg and just feed over and over again (with lots of assists) and just dont care.

The issue is, whenever i REALLY wanna carry, when i feel the game is mine, where its my job to win the game for the team and it dosent work as i planned because my teamates play something i dont expect (whether they dont trust my dps/escape, or just waste their abilities), i feel tilted.

Tilted is where my aggressivness (toxicity) began. I would just tell some1 he was useless and tell him if he disconnected it would be best for our team (sometimes, sadly, it's true).

Why did i began being toxic ? I did not care about the outcome of the game for years. Now that i think i have mastered some champions, for example assassins with high burst dmg, i am becoming toxic. Highly toxic, i might add. Remember, i play in bronze elo. Just IMAGINE the stupid plays or engages or w/e i see every time i play. Is it because now, i take this game seriously ? I dont think so, because sometimes, even though its an easy win, i can alt+f4 pretty fast. Is it because I've become competitive ? bro, im gold 1 at the best, so i dont think so, i know i suck (and i do not really wanna climb). Is it because of the community ? fuck who ever thinks that, the community starts by you alone. And yes, you alone can change it.

I dont know where my toxicity began. But the more i play, the more toxic i become. And right when i was typing this post i just got my first ban (they didnt tell me yet but i know its because of toxicity) i can only write 5 message and after that i have a delay of a couple minutes to write another (and impossible to write in ALL CHAT).

I need advice. I enjoy this game, i have fun playing it (most of the times), i have lots of friends playing it and i DO recommand this game to ppl who have not played this game yet. Plz dont let me become a toxic player. We need to identify the reason players become toxic, so we comeback with a solution.

Thank u all for reading this post, and another thank you for those who have an answer.

P.S. sorry about the bad english, it is not my mother-tongue.

11 Comments

Adea558/12/2019, 1:37:12 PM4 votes

going to sound "dickish" but it all boils down to "EGO" because u want to carry the game and be that "guy" on the team that carried us to victory. Is simple once its out of your control (anybody for that matter) ego kicks in and u try harder and harder and harder .... then to make ur self feel as if its not your fault at all you blame every one else. check this clip out not the same but same rule apply's https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3MuNYGAcEJM

Sylaelque8/13/2019, 1:52:20 AM2 votes

Just take a break really community very stupid and filled with disgusting people. Now i see it is become even worse than Dota 2's community atleast Dota has harder mechanics which avoiding stupid ones and people in there only blame to bad plays so you got no problem if you did your part. But in League, ADC compare damage with support and team always goes fight outside of vision then throws whole game in enemy jungle and I always try to carry 1v9 with feeder laners as jungler even leaving some kills for them but they just feeding more and more. It is really shocking me to see what kind of players we are playing with sometimes.

Aladoron8/13/2019, 11:34:52 AM2 votes

he issue I wanna talk here, is about toxicity. Over the years, NEVER have i been toxic. NEVER.

Just after admitting ragequitting multiple times... Okay m8.

I need advice.

Go play tetris, where you do not fck up your teammates' games.

Plz dont let me become a toxic player.

Quit!

Dr Cat Pooch8/12/2019, 5:37:16 PM2 votes

You have not recently become toxic. AFKing/Rage quitting is also toxic behavior. You can't deal with losing, so you quit. You can't deal with not carrying so you flame. Your mind is weak, and you're trying protect yourself from having to look at your failures and mistakes and learn from them. If you are serious about this game, then stop avoiding responsibility or you'll never improve. If you don't care, then have fun starting over from Lvl 1 in a bit.

VelvetCrotch8/12/2019, 5:44:21 PM2 votes

Some will give you the advice to take a break. As a sometimes toxic placer myself I tell you: this won’t help. If there are only a few games after your break which are a total shitfest you will get triggered again and explode.

Other advice? Just play a few games and if you lose every single one of them blame Riot and report everyone who you think deserves it. Write a message to your report. And eat. Yoghurt, chocolate, chips.., what you like. This helps me at least

Clone Is Friend8/12/2019, 11:09:01 AM2 votes

i gave up on not being toxic a long ago because i could not enjoy losing because i could not carry with my garbage champ. go ahead, be toxic

Wife In Lantern8/13/2019, 9:30:00 PM1 votes

you ever wonder about what your team felt when you played janna mid? of course you never felt tilted or toxic because you never wanted to win in the past and didn't take the game seriously. Now you want credit for winning a game by carrying and you're upset because your team doesn't listen to you? I'm sure there have been plenty of times where you locked in janna mid and your team didn't want you to do that but i'm assuming you didn't listen to them either. From what i see, you're a massive hypocrite and deserve to be tilted.

14daysuspensionk8/12/2019, 6:30:49 PM1 votes

Just avoid the temptation of wanting to flame and typing anything at all in chat when you're pissed off at your teammates.

Zlera8/12/2019, 10:22:07 AM1 votes

I think it has something to do with the direction the game is going. I have been doing the same thing. Im a generally nice person over all but as of late its been hard not to go in the chat and call someone stupid. No its not the community, but I do have no idea what it is causing this.