Why is this this way.

rtbf223219960·1/25/2016, 6:26:42 AM·1 votes·590 views

So I was just in a game with a graves that honestly, was a terrible jungle. He did only what I can assume as purposely ruin my laning and game, and refused to listen. When I became hostile cause of his actions he proceeded to flame and be an asshole. Why is the league community full of egotistical assholes that need to troll their teammates and flame them just to feel good. Another problem, I'm one bad day away from a perma ban. With how these people around me act and flame and intentionally ruin my game it makes me worried that one day I WILL have enough and go all in on them. Seriously.

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Stand Alone Wolf1/25/2016, 11:17:01 AM2 votes

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When I became hostile cause of his actions

Based off of the entirety of your post, I must say projecting your anger onto someone else isn't really the right way to handle your own problems. On a clearer note i'm pointing out that you seem to get upset easily based off of someone elses actions, & blaming them for your anger is unjust. You don't hit your wife/girlfriend, & say you made me hit you. You get banned for getting angry, & expressing it in chat. (Please understand I'm not siding with him, i'm playing devils advocate) It would be all-to-easy to just mute, report, & move on, so he could be ushered on to his possible ban.

I don't condone his actions if he did indeed intend to ruin your game, but it's quite possible (with you being close to being permaB'd, and all) that he was having a bad match, & you, me, & everyone else in League has bad matches. It's not like you've been a box of chocolates with the ban looming over your head and all, but it's hard to not get angry. if i'm upset enough And I don't really get upset in league like I use to from people ignoring everyone, & going in like Leroy Jenkins then I verbally say things, like. . . out loud. It helps, & it's faster than taking time that could be used to farm, take a turret, or take down prey.

With the ban closer to you than ever, please take the time to think about why a player is doing what they are doing. I've had matches where my internet decided to disconnect for 5 literal minutes, only for me to get back in, explain myself, & have people beyond reasoning typing in all caps to report me for afk, or me being the reason we lost, only for us to comeback, & have them not typing for the rest of the match. Don't be one of those players that get mad at someone for a bad match. You may get paired against your total counter, tell everyone you are totally countered, & still have them asking you why you are feeding, or doing terrible. Be that guy that sees a Graves not ganking, & asking him to get drag with bot, ward more, help, & even more importantly, if you know you can win your lane by eliminating small errors, or temptations such as diving them with low health when they have low health, then win it safely, & assist the lanes that are struggling as best as you can.

I told a guy my last match "Look veins, we can turn this around, but i'm going to need you to start sending happy waves in my direction" since he was so upset at his support he was yelling how he was done playing League after that game. We ended up winning to unveil the enemy teams Oreo (Orianna's nick-name) to be more aggressive than she let off typing in all cap "DAMNIT WORK TOGETHER TEAM!" and how they are throwing, & blah blah blah. It's nice to have a temporary relationship with the players on your team. It helps in the long-run. So far I've been having good games, even if some of them were losses, the majority have been great. First try typing "/muteall" in chat, & playing like that for a while. If someone does something that costs them lane, or the game, look at it like it's their problem, & theirs alone until you are ready to step in, & help them handle it.you gain the mental advantage if you get the jump on a fed enemy who thinks they are going to get themselves a kill off a champion they've killed for the 5th time (Also note they aren't really getting any gold from this champ now.)

just play chill. It works man. Handle your lane, & focus on just you early-game, & mid game start to slowly work your way to assisting lanes making sure to not leave your lane behind for the taking. If you're jungling, then this isn't the best way to play, but as a top main, I find it easier if I do what I can to get stronger in my lane before going to face a fed enemy in another lane, & just remember! If someone is having a bad match, positivity works more than negativity, & throw them some pointers, not daggers.

Samus721/25/2016, 11:43:45 AM2 votes

I suggest turning chat off every game with the command "/mute all."

It's done wonders for me.

WeaselGod1/25/2016, 6:37:50 AM1 votes

This whole community is pretty fucked tbh.