Toxicity towards passive gameplay?
Something I've noticed recently is an increase of hostile and toxic behavior from players I lane with when I choose to support more passively during the lane phase. Just got out of a game playing Nami support with a Tristana ADC into an Ezreal/Ekko bot. It was blind pick so at first I wasn't sure if it was Ekko or Xerath support, and decided to take Ancient Coin instead of Spellthief's anyway just to be safe because both picks can be oppressive and hard to trade with. I knew Ekko was going to try catch and burst us down. After seeing Trist taken down to a quarter HP after overextending a bit in lane, I played back and healed Trist, tried to reserve mana, and had bubble ready in case they tried to all in. We really couldn't fight them early, but I knew we'd scale better so I suggested be just play passive and farm. This is where Trist blew up on me. Basically called me useless and said it was like playing with a bot. She continued to harass me into the mid-game until she eventually just stopped talking. I didn't really reply at all because I've dealt with these types of players before and usually nothing really helps the situation. I just ended up roaming and helped out the team. We ended up winning the game because we scaled up. I landed some important ults and stuns, and kept our Nidalee alive in clutch situations more than a couple times (Which she seemed very thankful for). I know I wasn't useless but our Tristana didn't seem to agree.
A few games prior I had a Vayne who also blew up on me for 'not being agressive enough'. The difference is that this game I had been poking and landing many offensive bubbles. She just insisted on pushing wave to the enemy tower and then trying to fight. She the proceeded to harass me because I, a squishy support, wouldn't try to trade with the enemies under tower at level 4.
I don't really understand the need to be overaggressive all the time. Sometimes farming and waiting to scale really IS the best option. There is nothing wrong with playing passively. More of a rant than anything, but if someone could offer some feedback as to why some players are like this it'd be great, I just don't understand the mentality.