Teambuilder Ranked and Problems in Normals

Has anyone noticed that the Teambuilder Queue in both Normals and Ranked has ended in problems for all? Lately I've been getting a lot of teams that have a very incompetent Jungler trying to play something meta (like Graves Jungle) with almost no map awareness. On top of this, these junglers are less likely to gank losing lanes. Does it not seem a bit counterintuitive to have a role that is meant to assist other lanes but won't because it's losing. They seem to have no thoughts like "Hey, this lane is losing, let's see if I can turn that around." They instead think "Nope, they've lost it, I'm not going to help them, even though they could use it." I understand if there's warding involved or if they position safely when their combo is on cooldown, that happens. BUT when I as a player know that with their help and my opponent's poor positioning that my opponent could die to a gank and I can take my lane back, and the jungler decides to not help, I feel helpless, since the opponent is being rewarded by our jungler and his own for his aggression and my inability to do much about it. It sucks. Has this happened to anyone else, and how do you all deal with it?