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Got banned for two weeks

Bordable·8/16/2016, 6:51:34 PM·2 votes·833 views

Hey, some people might recognize me as this guy who likes to cry a lot about his behavioral problems and anger issues.

It finally happened, i snapped, i went too far, and i skipped quite a lot of levels of punishment, from chat restriction for 10 matches to instant ban for two weeks. At first i didn't expected it, but after reading the logs once i calmed down, it was pretty obvious i went too far.

I'm not asking for mercy or forgivness, although i have a very important question i really don't know answer for.

It's easy to mute someone who's toxic, this way entire game goes smoothly and you don't have to deal with someone breathing down your neck with a barrage of "you're feeding" messages.

But what i want to know is, how do you deal with people who are perfoming badly?

They are even more annoying and toxicity-inducing than the toxic people themselves. And i'm not talking about someone who's like 20 minions behind team or gave first blood to the enemy.

No, i'm talking about person who picks Tristana jungler and doesn't gank a single lane, and then walks solo at the enemy team and dies over and over, expecting something to change for some reason.

I'm talking about this one Lucian who stands still and hits minions while enemy Jinx and Tresh poke him hard enough for him to go back to base after four seconds of farming, and then ending up with 6 minions killed and twelve deaths, having no idea how that happened, when he just "tried to farm".

I'm talking about that Darius who dies countless times to enemy Fiddlestick at top lane, doesn't ask for help, doesn't do anything about his gameplay, he just goes in and somehow dies over and over again, and then continues to do so through the entire game with every other enemy champion.

I am being incredibly titled by this kind of stupidity, and such moments are so common in the usual League of Legends games sometimes i am wondering if i'm even being matched with actual people, not bots.

I am not saying that i'm some professional incredible killer game carrier, i have my good moments and falls, but as long as i've been playing this game (4 years, since season 2), i've meet so incredibly terrible people that in times i just give up on the entire game and watch everything fall apart because of a single person while myself i barely care about the match at all.

Playing this game just to lose every time you get someone terrible is just a waste of time, and such people appear much more commonly than actual good players.

So i ask, what do you do not to get angry at these people? I'm really looking forward to some serious answers

12 Comments

Alianoid8/16/2016, 9:00:31 PM2 votes

Just don't type, you have to have the self-control to not type your frustrations in chat. You can scream at your monitor, punch a pillow, or do anything else but DO NOT TYPE. Take your chatbox off the screen or unbind your enter key for a few games if need be, realize that flaming them will only put the other person on tilt (If they weren't already) and make them make even worse decisions, worsening your problem with them. If at all possible try to give them advice to improve their play and try not to come off angry or passive aggressive. If they start flaming you, just mute them.

Be careful, the next punishment will be a perma-ban.

Best of luck on the Fields of Justice! [slayer-jinx-catface]

Linthe8/16/2016, 9:42:30 PM2 votes

I just play my game. It IS only a game. And win or lose, it's only ONE game. I can't control what other people say or do.. only what I say and do.

archerno18/16/2016, 7:01:54 PM1 votes

U dont deal with them. What they do is their business. Focus on what you are doing. Thats your problem, u stick your nose too much in what others do.

Aviatinq8/16/2016, 7:13:41 PM1 votes

You got banned for being toxic so you decide to go on a rant about how other people are behaving?

Ellis McPickle8/16/2016, 8:10:16 PM1 votes

Stop being a coach and realize you're a player.