Help me understand "no" votes
So I'm in a game, jungler is dc'd from min 4-20 and again at round 25mins. Every lane loses. at 15 mins it's 12-3, 5-0 towers and a 4v5 game. I start a surrender vote and 2 people vote no. Their excuse? "I'm having fun, plus we outscale".
They drag the game out to 29 mins, we lose still 4v5, 9-1 towers, something like 29-6 in kills.
I'm the jerk for being frustrated at their wasting of my time.
My argument is pretty straight forward. It's bad sportsmanship to force people to play out an obvious loss. When the game is over, you knock over your king and start again. In the 15 mins they forced everyone to play out, we could have all been starting a new, hopefully more competitive game.
I have nothing against losing. I'll play out a game that still has a decent chance to win (decent can be even 15% or so). But once your only hope to win is that 2 of them randomly d/c, it's time to move on. People have a limited amount of time to dedicate to leisure, forcing them to waste that time is selfish.
The "never surrender no mater what" attitude confuses me. The point is to have fun. Games on either extreme are not fun. Being face stomped, or doing the stomping, isn't really fun.
Anyway, maybe I'm just venting.