(side note : i tilt very easily , i usually dont flame but when i tilt i get carried away)
and yes im a scrub and a piece of trash that deserves to be punished even further , i admit my mistake , i am a toxic individual , but i've had enough with these punishements and im looking to improve , maybe the way im trying to improve isnt correct , i just need your help.
Feel free to guide me :(
Spend some time thinking about what specifically tilts you. Is it arguments with teammates? Poor play? Other? And then think about what it means to play in a competitive setting where you are expected to lose half of your games.
Chat: If its a chat problem to begin with, muting is your best friend. You cannot be tilted by allied chat (or enemy chat, which can be permanently disabled in your client) if you never experience it in the first place. You can mute the pings, too, for a full array of blissful silence.
Some people will argue that you shouldn't mute people because "they might give important game information. The game needs communication to succeed". But they're wrong, because being tilted is far more detrimental to the team's chance at winning than the improvement to win chance that any hypothetical information they might provide causes. I'm pretty sure that was correct syntax.
Some people will argue that muting all is worse because "you'll mute non-trolls who might have good calls". That's less wrong, but still wrong nonetheless. Is that incorrect usage? I explicitly describe something as 'less' and 'nonetheless' in the same sentence. Idle thoughts. Your own play should be the most important thing to you.
Teammate play: Think about this for a second. Let us suppose that in a given losing game one or more players are the "cause" of the loss. With 4 allies and a solitary you, your allies are somewhere around 3-4x as likely to be the "cause" of a loss as you are. That's normal and expected. Note that sometimes nobody is responsible for a loss, or sometimes all five players are responsible for a loss. And sometimes you'll win in spite of a struggling ally. Or two. Or four.
There are plenty of reasons for a teammate to do poorly, or for you to do poorly, and most of them are not their own fault. They could have been counterpicked. Or been matched up against a player just a little bit better. Even LCS players sometimes experience a Flame Horizon. Maybe they made a misplay, and couldn't recover, or got outplayed, and couldn't recover.
"Some things are in our control and others not. Things in our control are...our own actions. Things not in our control are...not our own actions.
The things in our control are by nature free, unrestrained, unhindered; but those not in our control are weak, slavish, restrained, belonging to others. Remember, then, that if you suppose that things which are slavish by nature are also free, and that what belongs to others is your own, then you will be hindered. You will lament, you will be disturbed, and you will find fault both with gods and men." Epictetus, from the first lines of The Enchiridion.
Translation: The more you worry about what other people do and what you cannot control, the more tilted you get.
Honestly man just mute everyone ingame and dont talk and just play dont int dont afk just play the game muting everyone will keep you cool in some situations Im also the type of guy to get tilted easily I just talk to myself instead of typing it somewhat helps me because i let some flame out but its wont get me in trouble. Id just try to take breaks when you can I know it sounds stupid I dont like taking breaks but if you have another game or some show you can watch take time off league and just do something else I just got a 14 day ban which I also deserved but Im not totally mad because it gives me a break from league I get to do other things that the game was stopping me from doing because of its addictive nature just let that 14 day break be more like a vacation and relax then when you get back to league mute everyone, dont talk and just play.
You really just gotta stop playing Yas. ayyyy Jk
But in all seriousness, start the game with a positive mid set and stay positive. Keep droppings positive notes throughout the game. Mute people that are toxic towards you. Its all about just being a bit more mature.
Go into a custom game. Open up Options menu by pressing Esc. Go to Interface, and take the chat scale down to the lowest, and press okay.
Imagine that all of your teammates are NPCs in a D&D roleplaying game. They all have quests, and sometimes you can interact with them to start a "dragon" quest, or "baron" quest. Mostly though, you have to help them finish THEIR quests. Saving them, ganking them, teamfighting with them.
Mute someone the moment they start complaining, even it's just a simple "oh god" or "ffs". Get rid of it. If they start being negative, you don't need them. However, muting everyone can be a huge mistake. I've had my fair share of games where someone like the support was super positive and always called where the enemy jungler was whenever he was visible. It was amazing.
stay calm, play some badass music. channel your anger in killing the enemy team. if you team is a bunch of morons try to become the leader. suggest they group and what targets they should focus first
(side note : i tilt very eas-
No you don't. You, like the rest of the community, force yourself to pretend that you do because that's what the culture has devolved into: a self-destructive pissing contest over how upset people can get and sabotage games.
(side note : i tilt very easily , i usually dont flame but when i tilt i get carried away)
Everyone tilts. If we can stop ourselves from losing control, so can you
My best advice is to just think about it completely logically. Take out all emotion. Swallow your pride and follow the rules at all times. You know the rules, and when you get tilted just keep in mind that taking it to chat is the ONLY thing you could do that will get you punished. As for controlling the urge to chat during a rage fit, I don't know... I've never had that problem so I can't really say how, other than just having the mindset that it's ridiculous to risk your account over an emotional outburst that stems from a fucking video game. Try to keep that in mind. The bigger picture... you're playing a video game with a specific rule that forbids raging at teammates. What do you? You play the game, get mad, and rage at teammates. How ridiculous is that really? To me, it seems very ridiculous. To others, it's a "natural reaction". Sure it is, but it's also a poor excuse because you have the intelligence to assess the situation and think logically about your actions. I don't know... just try to override the emotions. It really is JUST A GAME.
(Personally, this sounds like an insult, but it helps me. Just try to shame yourself. When you see kids online raging at games, you think it's pathetic right? So think of yourself looking like that. Are you really a baby who can't stop himself from raging at strangers because things aren't going your way? Even though it could get you banned from the game you enjoy playing? You only hurt yourself by telling these kids off. Trust me, you aren't teaching them a lesson by baby raging at them. Most people will just laugh at you because it's pathetic)
It's simple: Riot doesn't want you to play their game. As far as they're concerned, they'd rather ban you and be done with you than see you "reform", whatever that is supposed to mean. Why play a game made by people that hate you and want you to go away?
All the other advice in this thread is fluff. Don't listen to them. There are thousands of better games out there made by devs that actually want you to play them.
i feel you bro. if you get tilted make sure to use lots of sarcasm (as it doesnt trigger the system) as opposed to regular insults, that shit gets u banned
I think i played with you
Buddy sorry to break it to you but there is no salvation after a 14 day ban...i got mine in october LAST YEAR...tried to reform..got to Honor level 2 ..during the year ( i played occasionally so i could cool off and not loss my temper) ...last 2 months i was inactive and decided to have a game yesterday ...long story short people trolled fed afked (but not to disconnect so they wouldnt be ban) i lost my cool i comfronted them...so i get out of the game i receive a key fragment for my ''recent good behavior'' and BAM a second later (i kid you not !! ) i get a perma ban.....sorry man but the system aint working...if you wanna know more about my story check my thread titled PERMA BAN in the Hot Thread Page....peace...good luck to you!
