How do I deal with a person like this

Ao Dracona·10/20/2018, 11:19:52 PM·5 votes·5,672 views

In league I have a group of friends that I like to play with and somehow it makes the game 100% more fun for me because we just fuck around and do whatever But occasionally there’s this one guy who always gets invited that pisses a few ppl off

Not gonna say his name of course but let’s just say he’s really toxic and not a team player

He’s more focused on making his stats look good and making him look like he carried the game Basically a kills over objectives focused type of guy

When he loses lane he gets mad at whoever or blames the enemy champ for being broken when he loses

He also likes to argue with others on how they build their champ He told someone to build berserker’s boots on Pyke... he doesn’t even play Pyke lmao

He’s not trash at the game tho he’s really good but his mentality is just toxic, all he wants is to constantly prove how much better he is than the opponent he’s playing against and although that’s a focus of league he’ll usually gloat in all chat and the unsportmanslike manner is just really tilting

You might say that gloating and carry mentality is part of league and that players do it all the time and I’m just butthurt about it

But I can’t stand people who just act like that

The simple solution is to just say ban him from our discord or group or to not play with my group, the thing is he keeps getting invited so playing with friends can be a double edged sword, of course I can just mute him but that won’t change much if he’s still in the game

7 Comments

MagicFlyingLlama10/20/2018, 11:44:21 PM4 votes

Decline to join if he is involved, simple.

There is no reason t compromise with obnoxious trash, they are incapable of it anyway.

R107 Games10/20/2018, 11:24:23 PM2 votes

Well ultimately all you can really do is either deal with it,ask your friends to stop inviting him,or leave your group

Binding Eclipse10/20/2018, 11:21:43 PM1 votes

How to deal: don't

Mokiller510/21/2018, 1:01:13 AM1 votes

Bro its like a game of basketball. if someone is constantly hounding on you or your teammates, then regardless of the relationship with that person you have the choice to just not play with them.

Apply the same logic, play with your friends but if he is invited (and trash talks his own teammates) then don't play with him. If your friends ask why you wont play tell them the truth that the other guy is toxic, if they really your friends they will have acceptance of your choice.

I used to be a lot like that guy you mentioned (would always harass my own friends when they invited me to games), but majority of the time I didn't realize I was so toxic/overbearing to my own teammates and friends until one of them refused to play with me. It kinda opened my eyes. So give the benefit of the doubt to the guy you mentioned, maybe he really just doesn't know that he's being toxic. Either way you refusing to play and telling them the truth about why you wont play can only help the situation not harm it.

FullmuteAll play10/21/2018, 3:38:09 AM1 votes

I am not any close to social person, but still Did you try to communicate this problem to your friends ? I think it really worth raising this topic. Imagine if nobody actually likes him, but invite him just because....well we always invite him.. Not as ethical but possible solution: Find members of the group who don't like him and keep reporting him together after each game (not sure if systems will accept it though) or just put it "us or him"