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Give me that 14 day ban, PLEASE.

Kirisomia·12/10/2017, 6:49:40 AM·4 votes·660 views

Today, when I played league, I just cried. Yes, I cried. I got frustrated, when i literally could not go to any lane without them not wanting me there, or getting killed, or jg telling me to get out of their jungle. I admit, probably not the best course of action. I do take responsibility. If they had just reported me, it would've been fine, as it was semi my fault. But no. The jg has to go "REPORT XAYAH" to ten people, eight others. But WHY? Riot stated that X9 report is the same as one, yelling a report call is unnecessary, and it just made me cry harder. The world we live in is toxic, and I care too much about what other people say about me. I really want to get m7 Xayah, yet I don't want to play anymore. Riot banning me for 14 days would let me take a break without having to make that decision and be tempted. Yet, I don't think I'm toxic enough regularly to be banned xD. I'm a weekend player, so after this Sunday I'll have five days w/o gameplay. I don't want to mute everyone because some are nice, but I also suffer depression, so I don't know what to do. Yes, I could stop playing entirely, or just mute everyone, but they can still troll and ruin all fun of anything. Also, I get bored.

What concerns me is how much toxi-mity is directed towards ME. Every time I find someone toxic in my game, they always target me. Never in my first year of gameplay have I seen someone toxic to someone else without including me too (my friend and I both got flamed once). I don't know why that is.

Thanks for reading :)

24 Comments

Taeseuk12/10/2017, 8:12:40 AM4 votes

Honestly if the game is making your cry you should stop playing, it will only make your depression worse by dealing with it and will constantly cause you to break down which isn't good for you.

A few suggestions to play:

Remember kills aren't everything, yeah your kda is useful and you want as few deaths as possible but they're not what wins games. You can go an entire game without a single kill and still win, your cs, positioning, objectives and team skill is way more important than kills/deaths.
The second and I do mean literally the second somebody says something that starts to get to you mute them, don't wait for it to get worse, don't wait until they've said several things mute them instantly.
Don't speak in the chat at all and mute everybody, while this is extreme if it's the only way you can play the game without feeling attacked then do it.

I personally still feel league is far to stressful for you right now if it's making you cry, no game should be making you cry out of anger, frustration or being attacked, none. Maybe take a break from league, play something less stressful to clear your mind.

I'm sorry you had this experience and I wish you the best no matter what you decide to do, keep your head up.

Falkentyne12/10/2017, 5:41:49 PM2 votes

I'll add you as a friend if you want. I don't mind. But most of the people I tried adding, who pretended to be nice on these forums, turned out to either be white knights or jerks in the end.

ExaggeratedToast12/10/2017, 8:36:42 AM2 votes

https://matchhistory.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/#match-details/NA1/2659629508/34421053?tab=overview i had the same problem in this game, i was being camped i got dived early, i died defending outer top turret i died defending inner top turret both times a 2 man dive, regardless of the reasons how i was dying the irelia was doing the exact same thing... i was spammed pinged to leave every lane but i could not go alone mid, i finally made a choice i spoke out "i can't go mid alone "im unwanted in top and bot my only choice is to jungle"(paraphrased: i'm sure it was a lot more salty and bm)

i spent the rest of the mid game jungling, no matter how much irelia hated it i did it to no feed i followed the ganking pattern and objective plays, i ended in a fair spot but still fed the early game none the less

it's hard for people to understand for some reason but you can actually be counter picked and/or just have a bad day, and regardless of how they see it, it's still a team game 5v5 not 1v1 and needing a team to lean on is not at all uncommon.

The previous comments are good tips to help avoid the seriously tilting feeling you felt and if not you got the forums, most people here hate toxic people and desire them 14 days ban over someone who had a bad game

MaidensKnight12/10/2017, 9:19:51 PM1 votes

Im sorry about how playing league makes you feel. I hope you get more considerate teammates in the future. Best of luck!!!

EL HAMSTERO12/10/2017, 9:32:42 PM1 votes

if you have problems with depression you really should find a different game. LoL is the most toxic game ever created and it will make you feel bad more often than it will make you feel good.

best of luck to you.

anmyauntieonpo12/10/2017, 9:39:02 PM1 votes

I'd love to see Riot employee or someone come in here and verify with actual evidence and not some speech that 9x report is the exact same as a 1x. Because every 9x or at least multiple confirmed report I have ever been a part of has always ended in IMMEDIATE repercussion being issued. Where as none has been issued for 1x countless times.

Also on top of this, the behavior you talk about is cancer, and its the same thing I'm seeing in every fucking game, and ALWAYS on the losing side. Please fix the report system so it's not this overbearing thing these trolls can use to try and put everything into a negative context

General Esdeath 12/10/2017, 7:35:04 AM1 votes

/muteall

Fegone12/11/2017, 3:42:05 PM1 votes

omg grow a pair or stop playing... sorry to say it this harsh but i mean come on... let's be serious here.

proliarides12/10/2017, 11:04:16 AM1 votes

You can fix this with one simple trick: GIT GUD

Falkentyne12/10/2017, 6:13:29 PM1 votes

K I sent a friend request :) You'll see it when you go on. Maybe we can talk or play something else or if you have steam, talk on there? (same name as here). Thank you. Just hope you don't wind up turning on me like so many others. Upvoted btw.