You can't reform. It's impossible.

BC Vasili·8/5/2016, 12:06:18 PM·4 votes·842 views

I'm not gonna lie. I'm toxic. But lately I've been trying to reforn or whatever you call it by just muting everyone and not talking while listening to some music. I can do that much but sometimes when I don't mute them all I see is "GG report bot lane troll" or some shit. People in this game are sensitive pricks who need to just shut the fuck up and play the game. If you need to tell the other team to report you or anyone actually, you are the toxic asshole. I can't even defend myself without sounding toxic. plz help. Someone kill me before I kill myself from all the rage inside of me.

12 Comments

Maximum Morde8/5/2016, 12:16:00 PM8 votes

U gt 99 problems but an abundance of inner peace ain't one

Deep Terror Nami8/5/2016, 12:44:35 PM5 votes

People are going to be dicks sometimes. Usually they start out with some minor toxic remarks, like a sarcastic "nice dive noob" when a tower dive goes bad; that is the the point you want to mute an individual, before they escalate to insulting your rank and intelligence. I don't recommend using /mute all at the start because it cuts off all the positive and useful communication, but if the slightest remarks tilt you then it's ok to do that. You might also simply move the chat box off your screen, or edit its size in the config folder so it's invisible (-150 will do).

Just remember that they are nobody important to you. They don't really know you so there's no need to take their words personally. If they are saying they'll report you and are asking for the others to do it to, you don't need to defend yourself; False reports get thrown out, and they'll have no effect on you if you've done nothing wrong no matter how many of them there are.

When someone starts flaming you, they typically want to know that their words affected you. The only way they know this worked is when you respond. The obvious solution is to not respond to them. You can certainly come back with a positive response and try to get the focus back on the game (I prefer this as the initial response to toxicity), but if they continue their behavior then it is a bad idea to speak to them any further. It's like feeding the bears; once you give them some they're going to come back for more, and you've either encouraged the behavior or made it worse.

If you ever get distraught over their behavior before you're able to block them out or de-escalate the issue, take a break from the game. If you go right into another game in that state you are likely to not play at your best and be more susceptible to toxicity. You can move from Ranked to Normals or ARAM, or log out of LoL and do something else for the time being. I suggest a nice comedy show to lift your spirits :3

Don't forget that you can always improve your own gameplay as well. While someone may have been wrong to insult you for a mistake, that doesn't mean you can't learn from it! After things go back, analyze what you did and consider what you could've done better. Read guides and watch pros/coaches to get better; if you improve you'll climb, and if you climb you'll have a much better time! (people that lose tend to be the toxic ones after all)

Dessem8/5/2016, 12:09:31 PM5 votes

People in this game are sensitive pricks who need to just shut the fuck up and play the game.

Take your own advice. Shut up and play the game, don't be a sensitive prick who lashes out every time someone says anything negative.

Kei1438/5/2016, 1:09:17 PM2 votes

well, lets have you understand the system a bit, and by knowing so it'll probably reduce your stress.

There is no need to defend yourself

  1. If someone report you, and you didn't do anything wrong, the system will throw the report out as a false report

  2. Group reports do the same thing as 1 report, it just flags the system to check for toxicity. If there isn't any toxicity, then it'll be the same as point 1.

  3. What are you defending anyways, not like people can punch you over the internet. There is nothing getting hurt, other maybe your e-pen. Which you won't see them again after the game, so who cares.

Reform is a state of mind, not just an action

If you truely want to reform, it comes first from your mindset. Not needing to care about what others say is a great way to just laugh things off.

BigBellBrute8/5/2016, 6:38:58 PM1 votes

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People in this game are sensitive pricks who need to just shut the fuck up and play the game.

That's just something people that deserve punishment say.

LatetotheRace8/5/2016, 2:40:20 PM1 votes

"But lately I've been trying to reforn(m)" Yet it's incredibly clear in this post that you have no real interest in reforming. " I can't even defend myself without sounding toxic. plz help." So it's a bizarre concept I have here, so stand by. Don't. Just don't defend yourself. In what way does some bastard from who knows where's opinion matter? If he's being a dick, ignore him. Mute him, and even block him after the game. That way he gets punished and not you. I have taken up a practice personally, where I get verbally aggressive without saying anything in game that would suggest that. As a result, I am sufficiently toxic yet I have never received an ingame punishment.

"Someone kill me before I kill myself from all the rage inside of me." This is not something anyone else can do for you, anger/rage is a very real part of humanity, but it is a part of you that you MUST learn to control. If you wish to be successful in life, it's important that you find a way in which you can vent your anger.

Trip Makaveli8/5/2016, 3:40:17 PM1 votes

yep basically even saying the T word in-game makes u a dumb%%%%. that's always been my view.

just let it roll off you though man.

the reporting system don't work anyways so no reason to get all excited thinking ur going to get ur life back or some form of retribution.

Itankyou8/5/2016, 6:16:43 PM1 votes

Dude I don't understand why everyone is downvoting you, this is some real talk right here. I feel EXACTLY the same way man. Hang in there bro, we are here for you, you are not alone.