Support = Verbal Abuse

AgentChezni·5/5/2016, 5:04:37 PM·10 votes·2,257 views

Sure support isn't flashy or the center-stage position, but it's still a fun position... or it should be.

Ever since "fill" became "support" (so basically since the new queue came out) I've swapped from Jungle to Support just to sort of help out the support deficit. After a month or two of playing the new position, I can tell you that it's no wonder that no one wants to play support--because no one wants to be torn down over and over and over again by their abusive ADC's.

It's great when you get a good ADC and you can win through teamwork--heck it's even better when you get a great ADC and you can lose with grace and understanding--but the majority of the games feel like messing with a time bomb.

If he dies it's your fault for not dying with him. If you die to protect him, it's your fault for feeding. You get flamed for leaving lane and warding too much and flamed for warding too little. If he's winning, it's all him. He had to "carry you noobs," or his "back hurts." With a large number of these abusive ADC's, the show is all about them, and they never take responsibility for their actions and try to take all the credit for the team's victories.

Is it possible that this interaction occurs because ADC's tend to draw in the most aggressive players? Is it because the ADC position is roughly the most critical position in the game (similar to the Quarterback in football)? Or does it occur because Support tends to draw the less aggressive more patient players who do not wish to engage in verbal conflict? I'm not sure. All I know is that when the majority of your games results in someone telling you over and over how worthless you are, you just don't want to play the game anymore, even when you win.

29 Comments

Fovere5/5/2016, 6:02:53 PM10 votes

I'd say most problems come about because of the perception that you have some kind of obligation to the carry no matter the circumstances.

While your early game role is to help the carry farm and get ahead, that doesn't make you beholden to them, even while in lane.

You have your role and its up to you how to best fill that role. When someone starts to act like they own you, be quite clear that is not the case.

Support =/= Team Bitch

alfavhunter5/5/2016, 6:13:38 PM3 votes

As a support main this is how I treat it

If my adc is flaming me I will leave and support mid, jungler or top because if they can't acknowledge their own mistakes I will let them fail and support another lane

If my adc is 100% trash I will do the same thing, because I can carry easier if I don't have someone running in to fight and. Die again and again if I leave lane he will likely play safer, if not they are getting one kill instead of 2 after they are over fed

Kei1435/5/2016, 5:29:53 PM3 votes

You think supporting is bad?

try jungling.

Keep in mind i'm a support main, jungle 2nd.

Ethri5/11/2016, 7:16:11 AM2 votes

To be honest, as a support main I very very rarely encounter this. People even end up giving me a friends request even if I feel I sucked that game. Then again I do notice my mistakes before my allies notice and apologize (even if they don't notice them).

Though... it might be that I haven't been able to play ranked much, so who knows.

Moriorty5/5/2016, 5:14:02 PM2 votes

"Or does it occur because Support tends to draw the less aggressive more patient players who do not wish to engage in verbal conflict?" Yes, this. However, it twists you into the most tainted of assholes. Fact is that "Support" does not mean you have to go bot lane. it is just the visual representation on the Champion select queue. Also, most ADC's can solo 1v2 ( I like using Quinn for this), but keep in mind most players are not that creative and wish to be boring and follow a years-old meta. summoner 31

GRVet3ran0sS5/7/2016, 7:38:39 AM1 votes

You just don't know how to play support that's why you get flamed.

AnonymousPoro5/8/2016, 5:47:32 PM1 votes

I think Supports and Junglers get the most shit from their team. I remember specifically a time where I was playing Braum in ranked, our Gnar jumps in 1v4, I jump in and try to shield him long enough to get away, I ult to try and save myself but get rooted and killed.

First thing he says to me?

"omg dumbass supp"

He is one of the reasons I gave up Ranked. I'm not gonna stand by and get shit-talked by my team and just continue to do my job perfectly.

Zaryelle5/10/2016, 1:30:37 AM1 votes

I main support and sadly most ADCs I play with are toxic right from the beginning of the game.. like any time they die or the 2v2 goes bad it's always entirely my fault. If I'm Soraka and I didn't ult you every time you were about to die from across the map then I'm the worst noob in the world.

gpasztor3/26/2017, 10:19:09 AM1 votes

I feel you man, but as a self entitled support main, I am happy to get the kill and let the ADC they if they bitch. I'm happy to let someone die who bitches and drop "Act like a bitch, die like a bitch." After three or four of these they learn how to treat their teammates

Unward495/5/2016, 5:20:01 PM1 votes

I know that when I "Support" I spend most of the time as far away from bot lane as possible. Basically, I'm a jungler without smite.

I do run ignite though, daddy needs a new pair of everything and my fucking targon's proc sure as shit isn't gonna pay for it.

Drehirth5/5/2016, 5:23:29 PM1 votes

With all the toxic supports I've had these threads annoy me so much. Although I honestly haven't seen one role be generally more toxic than another (not just talking about botlane) tbh

ShamanTurtle5/5/2016, 11:26:13 PM1 votes

I've been a support main since I started ranked in season 3. I finally hit plat this season and yeah I've heard some of the worst things from players. They ask me where I live so they can come beat me up irl because I lost them lane. They report me when I give them criticism. I'm not being mean I'm just telling them that maybe what they're doing isnt working if they've died 5 times in a row. It baffles me how little people who play this game want to win. You don't win by going 10/0. You win with your team by working with them. As a support it's almost your job to get your team to actually play as a team. This is just amplified this season and it makes it horrible to play alone. I cant play alone anymore because of how toxic players are. If I don't have friends with me I don't play. I also dont have many friends that are in my division so it's hard. So in short playing support is awesome if you have a team that plays as a team and it's the worst role in the game when you play with people who think if I'm not 10/0 5 minutes in I'm gonna afk and blame my support.

BroLane5/6/2016, 12:24:50 AM1 votes

I usually start helping mid if my lane is winning, or if my adc is a toxic baddie who fed Vayne two kills at five minutes. Having a feeding adc means it's unlikely for you to do as much as you could with assists, and this is my reasoning for roaming away from bot.