My most disliked form of toxicity

We all know that not all forms of toxicity is the same, and we've probably all had to go through every single one at some stage or another. But there is one form of toxicity I cannot fathom. And that is the "everything you do is intentional".

The most recent example of this would be a game I just finished (and yes, it was a loss due to overwhelming conflict within the team). The big major one was where I helped J4 leash a red buff at around maybe 25 minutes or so, so we were all somewhat leveled up and capable of doing camps alone, however as support Janna I thought a few spells wouldn't hurt. I threw out Zephyr and shielded him and whilst making my way back to mid lane I donated one more, a rank 1 tornado that ended up killing red buff. Ryze was by far the most toxic of everyone on the team along with J4 and spoke out persistently about it. My only real question is whether they truly believe I chose to steal it intentionally. Of course, we all know what the answer was; but I'll get to that soon. From that point onward, every kill I managed to get they treated as intentional kill stealing and that 'gold on supports were useless'. But my point is why I hate this form of toxicity so much.

Because it's easy and emotionally attractive to dump more and more unrelated 'tilt' upon each other. Gnar wasn't doing very well early and went 0/6 in which Ryze got toxic about, and after a whole slew of things, now apparently me taking red fits under the same tilt category as Gnar not doing well. That being said, Gnar did do a bit better later in the game but at that point Ryze was on a toxic rampage. Eventually he wanted to make it personal and stop any kind of surrender vote, saying that "we shall endure it". Amongst all he was toxic about, he stated that he doesn't care anymore. Of course we can see the contradiction; if someone doesn't care about a game, they wouldn't be toxic about it; toxicity is often frustration in attempt to win games. If someone wanted to lose games or didn't care they wouldn't be toxic.

So I guess, moral of the story is; there is no rationality in emotion, and no emotion in rationality. It baffles me how someone can be so irrational and so clouded by emotion.

Sorry for the long rantish post. Perhaps this is my way of releasing frustration. If so, then thank god I've found a civil way and not put it on anyone in game.