Why are people so sensitive?

5StackUltOneShot·2/28/2019, 2:19:20 PM·5 votes·2,706 views

Im not even talking about flaming. I just came out of a game with a Diana that went 0/9. All I told her after she finished flaming our Yasuo was 'hey Diana, my Jayce and their jg Kayn was behind my tower for half the laning phase why didnt you gank, just a friendly question <3'

Only to get 'and you will get friendly perma ban for that <3'.

Wtf? Youve been flaming our team the entire match for feeding despite the fact that your 0/9, I ask why you dont gank an easily gankable lane and you go aggro on me?

24 Comments

GatekeeperTDS2/28/2019, 2:38:08 PM8 votes

This isn't something limited to interactions with people in League. When dealing with people in any situation (parents, friends, coworkers, significant others) sometimes we need to judge the situation before we speak - sometimes it's better to not say anything at all, or to come back and talk about it later once a person has calmed down. Not everyone reacts well to constructive criticism while they're coming out of a frustrating situation.

The Diana in your game wasn't in a position to think rationally, so your legitimate suggestions fell on deaf ears. It's best to not say anything to people who were raging all game.

R107 Games2/28/2019, 2:27:27 PM5 votes

Because riot promotes and influences players to be sensetive.

"Oh don't deal with flamers yourselves via muting/ignoring, you should feel offended/upset and report so daddy Riot can punish them"

Vulkus I2/28/2019, 2:32:32 PM5 votes

Stop speaking the truth, people here don't like that.

rujitra2/28/2019, 2:31:55 PM4 votes

Part of it could be that you worded your question very aggressively and assumed that ganking was the only valid choice. You didn't ask "hey is there something I could've done to make it easier to ganking", you started by presenting data that it seems you present to try to prove she should've ganked, and you follow it with a matter of fact passive aggressive question.

Xidphel2/28/2019, 2:22:37 PM4 votes

That was a troll. Wouldn't count them as sensitive.

Deliberate Inter2/28/2019, 4:34:36 PM3 votes

Isn't it already humiliating enough to be outplayed by the other jungler? The difference you describe is so great that no amount of hard work could ever overcome it. SOme people have talent, and some people don't. We should all be more sensitive, there are no participation trophies in league, and that hurts too. Reconsider what you ask, she might have needed emotional support and what, interrogation? Definitely NO!

Sgtletterslide2/28/2019, 4:31:39 PM2 votes

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Im not even talking about flaming. I just came out of a game with a Diana that went 0/9. All I told her after she finished flaming our Yasuo was 'hey Diana, my Jayce and their jg Kayn was behind my tower for half the laning phase why didnt you gank, just a friendly question <3'

Only to get 'and you will get friendly perma ban for that <3'.

Wtf? Youve been flaming our team the entire match for feeding despite the fact that your 0/9, I ask why you dont gank an easily gankable lane and you go aggro on me?

IM DEAD SERIOUS THIS GAME CAUSES THE WORST OF PEOPLE TO COME OUT CUZ THEY SEE IT AS "WELL IM NOT WASTING MY TIME IN THIS ALREADY LOST GAME" its super self-centered behavior of sissies that cant handle ANYTHING out of their comfort zone, this 100% will be the death of this game, just super messed up in the head people with 30 different accounts just hopping from one to another until they get what they want, screw everyone else. Serious sociopath behavior that is being generated from this title to its player base. Big upset.

Mavëríck2/28/2019, 6:04:30 PM2 votes

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Im not even talking about flaming. I just came out of a game with a Diana that went 0/9. All I told her after she finished flaming our Yasuo was 'hey Diana, my Jayce and their jg Kayn was behind my tower for half the laning phase why didnt you gank, just a friendly question <3'

Only to get 'and you will get friendly perma ban for that <3'.

Wtf? Youve been flaming our team the entire match for feeding despite the fact that your 0/9, I ask why you dont gank an easily gankable lane and you go aggro on me?

It's because Riot has caved fully to the Twitter SocJus mentality.

Tele II3/1/2019, 12:57:17 AM2 votes

Rap music, social media, Political Correctness. Thats what made society so sensitive.

Davvis2/14/2020, 9:31:43 PM1 votes

Man all u guys saying just think before u speak is bullshit league is made for the soft of the soft gamers there banning system is the worst out of any game to date and anyone who disagrees is just a fanboy, the game itself is fun but taking trash is just part of being competitive. If u really want to win and there’s someone holding u back anyone in any game sport or anything gets told off but oh no not league u must allow people to ruin games and be dicks and u simply jus have to mute it’s so fucking stupid it’s that main reason I quit.