Why is being 0/2 considered feeding but 3/11 is perfectly fine?
Seriously, I just played a game as Aatrox where I had to lane a gainst Riven, who is pretty much top 3 in Aatrox counters. In lane phase I was only killed once, I played safe, farmed, and avoided giving the Riven a lead.
On the other side of the map, however, our Olaf "support" managed to die 11 times, but because he got 3 kills, everyone was ok and defended him saying things like "Aatrox why are you feeding? You don't even have a kill" and "Olaf has kills, he's actually helping".
I don't understand this logic. Sure, I didn't help my team much, but I also didn't feed Riven, only giving her one kill with my other death coming in the last team fight. How is that somehow worse than Olaf giving away 11 kills?
And then I remember that I'm in bronze and everyone plays the game like it's team deathmatch.