i dont like that people are trying to rationalize being a total dick.
ALL of my losses, are because of at least 1 person being a toxic asshole.
being toxic makes others distracted or tilted (in my case, it distracts me, even if I mute them because mentally it was annoying) and they tend to just rush in bad fights and play Call of Duty style.
My most enjoyable games have been games where even when my team wipes completely and we could now lose the game from your lead, people just go "ouch, we can still win X person has no flash" and we play and win. Instead of "OMFG WHAT WAS THAT LMFAO WE LOST GG" and then not be strategic and make the best out of what happened.
It's a shame that people are so attached to the past and mistakes instead of realizing what happened happened, and what to do to make the best out of the situation. It's unhealthy to think "what if".
Also, I personally never saw someone "soft int". It's literally a stupid term made by people who probably harassed someone thus making them play bad and just call them "soft inters".