How do I stop being toxic

VIadimir·11/14/2019, 12:05:54 PM·1 votes·2,797 views

My name iS Vladimir, and I am a toxic league of legendS player.

I have loSt track of all the accountS I have loSt, probably at leaSt Seven of my accountS have been banned from my toxic behavior.

LoSing So many accountS reSulted in the loSS of thouSandS of dollarS Spent into thiS game

Often when I fight Someone, I will flame them in /all when I die, eSpecially if it iS from getting ganked, or if they play a champion that lookS unfair.

USually I don't flame my teammateS unleSS they flame me.

I know many people Say to juSt mute /all and /allied chat, but I would find the game not aS very fun if I could never hear anyone talk, and pluS hearing my allieS helpS me win.

IS there any Sort of pSychological training I can uSe to make mySelf not take everything perSonally and be aS nonchalant aS you guyS?

pleaSe help

25 Comments

Jennifer1711/14/2019, 3:56:25 PM3 votes

idk why you write every S in capital but its super annoying. like for real. its not cool, its not "vampire" its just annoying.

as for being toxic, the best option would be to turn off (ally)chat. you cant flame and you cant see flame.

Sinful Succubus11/14/2019, 12:23:20 PM2 votes

IS there any Sort of pSychological training I can uSe to make mySelf not take everything perSonally and be aS nonchalant aS you guyS?

steo 1: stop typing like that^

https://media.giphy.com/media/l4Ki2obCyAQS5WhFe/giphy.gif

step 2: keep in kind that it's only a game where everyone flaming is a keyboard warrior who doesn't understand arguments for what they are. You're highly unlikely to find anyone who will admit to being wrong about enything. just let go of trying and play the game.

step 3: when someone annoys you, either mute them and report them after the game OR make a note to report them after the game while separating yourself from the chat. what goes on in it must be as foreign to you as a soap opera. Instead of arguing back, resolve to taking screenshots of his toxicity every time you die or go back to fountain. Attach them to the report.

step 4: don't comment on his behaviour to anyone in the game both during and after the game. just report.

iron4playa11/14/2019, 12:17:17 PM2 votes

why so many capital S's is this a moe coSplay

Kei14311/14/2019, 12:59:11 PM1 votes

In regards to OP champs, try playing them for 10 games and then think of ways to counter and outplay them after you've gotten familiar with their kit, damage, timings and range.

Sona Cant Mid11/14/2019, 4:01:20 PM1 votes

I have come very close to a permaban myself and when I get mad at someone or someone starts flaming me, make use of your mute button. It's very hard to argue with nobody. Also just remember according to 2 things called the "Egocentric Bias" and the "Dunning-Kruger Effect" an argument will almost always end with both sides being more sure that they are right than ever before. Both of these phenomenons are natural and instinctual, and almost everyone but the most level headed and intelligent people will be belligerent in response.

https://youtu.be/oFL5NoM9GVE

This video will explain very nicely the concepts I'm explaining, and hopefully, if you understand these things it will make it easier to react accordingly.

KalokasIsMyDaddy11/14/2019, 8:58:11 PM1 votes

Wait, do you know my friend?

He mains vlad. He has lost thousands of dollars to banned accounts, around 5-7 banned accounts. He flames a lot. Especially when he dies to a gank or he dies to an unfair champion.

AND he doesn't flame his teammates if they dont flame him first.

I am not kidding. I thought it was my friend that made this post.

Yin Yang Taoist11/15/2019, 3:56:37 AM1 votes

ImItatE this HeRo. In order to trUly cure your tOxicity, pleasE watch this carEfully from start tO finIsh. OnlY aftEr you'rE able to entail the aCtions oF the UgAndan Bruce LeE will yoU be suCcessful.

To ensure that you're cured, try creating a new topic. See if you're able to type normally, next topic. <-- Like this!

Congratulations! Your first step towards detoxifying your chat messages is partially successful.

Next, you must get into a league game. If someone annoys you, immediately abandon the game and try to entail the actions of the Ugandan Bruce U to cure your anger, once more! After you return, you shall find that the game no longer bothers you (If its still going). Start a new game! Rinse and repeat.

_I take no responsibility for any physical or psychological damage caused to the OP or anyone else by reading or practicing the detoxifying lesson of the Ugandan Bruce U. Please, everything at your own risk. _

Era Teemo11/14/2019, 12:29:38 PM1 votes

Tip: When you are pissed blame yourself (just do not talk vs/& about teammates, give s examples what you have to do batter). Make them laugh and do not turn them vs you.

Typing takes a lot of time, each consider, if you have enough time to type.

Veloz Destello11/14/2019, 12:58:27 PM1 votes

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