How to get people to listen/People need to toughen up.

So Jungle and Support quite a bit. So I have the luxury of always being able to watch the map. I would have to say I have reasonable intuition about when lanes are going to be ganked. Also, I know what champions have to do what in order for a gank to be successful. Too many lanes just want the jungler to go in first with the laner to go in after instead of being slightly more coordinated. I try to say hey go in now or hey care you are going to be ganked. But, no one ever listen's . Usually after the third time I get pissed and really salty towards them. Being nice to them doesn't work. Explaining things to the neutrally doesn't, and being mean to them doesn't work.

Which leads me to the second topic. I think that there should be a lot higher criteria for players to be reported for verbal abuse. If you don't want to be told that you suck and are dumb don't suck or be dumb. People are so whinny. I liken it to kids telling on each other. Some of these players out there really need to be told how dumb and toxic their play style is. As long as you aren't saying anything sexist, homophobic, racist, and so on you should be able to tell people how much they suck until they stop throwing your game. The worst thing is when they call you a kid because you are complaining about their play style. Then they go off and do exactly the opposite of what you told them to do.lol.