WTF is this game?

So, I guess it's completely ok for people to flame someone for losing lane. All i did in a recent game, was mention that we needed to shut down an Urgot, and that i hadn't had a gank. That was at 17 minutes and 2 deaths. But, I'm and inter and a cry baby who cant lane without help. So that convo spreads to all chat, and now i have 9 people flaming me for literally asking a question. Unbeknownst to me, and according to everyone in this game, it is NOT a junglers job to apply preasure to lanes. Or to gank when the enemy is sitting under your turret all game, but hey, what do I know, cause I'm just an Iron dumbass. Which is a nice thing to hear, too. And now MY account is banned, because THEY all reported me. 14 day suspension for asking for help. I'm so fucking tired of this toxic goddamned community. Flaming your teammates doesn't help you OR them. Telling someone they're bad or that they suck or that they're this and that because of some stupid rank is all fucked, and it seems like EVERYONE just wants to flame. You see it in streamers games, High ELO, LOW ELO. It's not just friendly banter, or competitive smack talk, now I dont get to play for 14 days because of these types of people. Thanks Riot Games.