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I'm tired of my toxicity

Hi im Orestis·2/10/2016, 10:39:17 AM·3 votes·777 views

My god.. I'm sick and tired of my self.. I don't understand.. How do people play and ignore abusive people and flamers.. For me it's annoying and unfair.. I get mad at those people and then I mess up my plays.. I tilt over them.. I mute them and then they will do stuff in game just to piss me off.. I don't want to get pissed off anymore.. I know that every game is winnable!! I know that if we put it all down and try, even the most unexpected games can be turned around, but when I tilt I can't.. And I bring my team down with me.. Please give me some advices on how to make them insignificant! I know I can't do anything about them. But j can do a lot about myself. So please guys!! Help me out.. I don't want to be banned bcoz I tried to defend my teammate and called a flamer fuckhead, or retarded shit show some respect to your teammates... I mean.. Who the hell cares why Im toxic.. In the end of the game I wasn't better than the other guy.. Damn.. I just want it to end... I wanna be able to ignore it and focus on my game and how to win this and play with the rest of my team!!

8 Comments

Void Nargacuga2/10/2016, 10:47:02 AM2 votes

Music is a great thing to keep you calm. Just find something you enjoy! It might help! I like listening to music if I feel like it won't affect my play to badly. Probably won't listen to music if I am up against an unfamiliar champion though so I can keep an eye on them to see what I can learn just from observations.

Platurt2/10/2016, 11:01:29 AM1 votes

Training. That can already be everything you need. Idk how long you play lol but I'm here since season 3 and until mid season 5 I had the same problems, and I mean RLY problems, to stay calm in those situations. It also gets easier the more mature you get, if you're 35 and play since beta, this won't help tho, sry^^

You'll also hear a lot of stuff like imagining the raging guy as a kitten or something like that. Maybe it will help some people, when I'm mad those ideas just make it worse.

What DID help me sometimes is when for example the adc rages on the toplaner who looses the lane big time and then due to the rage both player suck. Now many ppl say you should just ignore it but when another and another stupid thing happens and even tho you muted them you KNOW it's cause they can't shut up and focus on the game, you will get mad at some point, so I personally never mute in those cases but be the positive guy who defends the toplaner, gives the calls and tells the adc that it is far from lost if we play together. Just arguing that he is the bad guy won't help, cause he knows he fucked up! He can't do anything against his toxicity just like you can't do any against yours. So just be the glue that holds the team together, even if you're the jungle and fucked up a few times yourself. The adc will come with stuff like "No we can't win with this top" but he doesn't rly mean it, that's why he keeps playing. Just try to prevent an actual argument from happening and even if you fail to do so, you won't get mad yourself until the match is lost^^

Rozair2/10/2016, 11:03:21 AM1 votes

Drive to their houses and beat those trolls up. You are clearly better than them and they deserve it

A8KkXovSOf2/10/2016, 11:25:34 AM1 votes

This is what i did. Mute all second 1 Turn off all chat. options menu Turn off game music, ambient sound effects and most importantly turn off pings. Turn on psy-trance (Full on, Progressive)

Main tryndamere. With tryndamere team fights are not your job. You don't need to do anything your team wants at all. even with pings and chat on u ignore them anyways. People that don't play spit pushing champions don't understand that u pushing is u defending. U can B and die or make enemy B and die. If you are at their base then guess what, they are not at your base. If 2 come to fight u then it's now 3v4 for your team. With tryndamere you can outright lose your lane 0-5 and still touch nexus.

Other champs that can do the same: Voli, Yi, Hec, Xin, udyr, Mundo (portal recommended)

Play independant champions. As sup play champs that can clear waves, take towers, kill 1v1 1v2. You can mute adc and not give a shit. you don't need him. If adc is bad then now your adc. Take all the farm mute his futile crying. Spam laugh as you do it. Make it a fun thing to be toxic without typing anything.

recommended sup champs: Anne, Lux, are meta but let's be real they are not sup champs. OP top laners for sup: Garen, Xin, Irelia op, Shaco OP my fav, WW, Yi, Rengar works well, Rumble, Elise.

As the meta is today bot laning phase over so fast like lev 7. So any of those champs can be turned into a split pusher, team fighter, duelist, assassin, tank. whatever your comp needs for the W. Have the attitude of its a new game after laning phase and do what you gotta do to get that win.

Hi im Orestis2/10/2016, 6:06:30 PM1 votes

Thanks guys for the help.. And I've been playing for 5 years but.. I was in middle school when I started so you can imagine the rage of a child LMAO.. And true as I got older. I raged less and less and now it just bothers me that people won't listen when you want them to see the game as winnable no matter what. And even if you lose.. Who cares.. You see streamers on master losing their promos 7 times in a row and they are laughing about it.. And it's their job.. Not just a game or entertainment.. I just wish league community would be better and people could work together! I mean, it's like a dream EVERY GAME WITH NICE PEOPLE!! xD have fun on the summoner's rift guys!!