Need Help Improving My Behavior.

SadnessHimself·2/20/2018, 2:22:17 PM·2 votes·445 views

I am not afraid to post this information, beacuse I seriously love this game and I am having a hard time improving. I have been perma banned for 3 times now, spending a good amount of money on the game on 2 accounts, I have 5 accounts, 1 with a forgotten password, 1 in which I can't log in and 3 others perma banned as I already said, I know I could just mute all of the other players, but I like talking to other people in game, but when someone flames me I have to constantly try to prove them wrong/flame them back, most of my bans were beacuse of trollers on my team in ranked, and I do not believe I am a good player for the community, I flame on flamers, and I know I will get alot of backlash for this, but how could I improve or is there no hope I can stay in this community? Now you may know me, you probably know me as either a friendly person who likes to joke around or a very big flamer. I have been here for 4 years now and seriously don't know what to do right now. Also this game made me into a giant (ingame) asshole.

9 Comments

Ph03n1xb1rd2/20/2018, 2:30:59 PM1 votes

Go play Dota2 or HoTS, better experience, better community. If you stay playing LoL, you will meet this assholes all the time, if you just want to flame back on them, you will get punished, that's all.

AgeOfTheMage2/20/2018, 2:37:24 PM1 votes

well, try taking a break, play a few games, take a break(or play a custom with friends) you could always say your frustrations out loud instead of typing them as well. If you decide to make another account add me! I'd be glad to help! League in itself though, is a toxic game, it turns people toxic.

SadnessHimself2/20/2018, 2:57:48 PM1 votes

Also if anyone wants my chat logs on the banned acc's I can give them to you.

Jo0o2/20/2018, 3:55:45 PM1 votes

I don't usually suggest this, but there are ways to unbind Enter/remove your own chat box, which would prevent you from flaming people.

BoostedMessiah2/20/2018, 4:01:03 PM1 votes

I am like you. I don't mute all as a matter of habit. I prefer to interact with my teammates. So, my approach when someone flames me, if I don't outright ignore it, is to just say "ok."

I'm a terrible player? Ok. We're losing because of me? Ok. You're going to report me? Ok.

You have to get in the mindset that opinions like that don't matter. There's no need to elaborately express this. No need to announce that you are muting someone, or that you intend to report them. Frankly, it seems to be a toss up as to whether acknowledging having read a message or ignoring it entirely will do a better job of making such a player quiet down. But if you feel the need to let someone know that you couldn't care less about their crappy opinion of you, just say "ok". Rammus