Riot should consider revising their "zero tolerance on homophobic slurs" policy. Here's why.
I know this seems like a backwards, counter productive thing to do (especially in today's culture), but I hope and urge you to read the whole thing before making a judgment/dismissing it. This isn't me asking to be unbanned - this happened two months ago and I already did my ban time. Instead, I'm hoping to shed light on a policy of Riot's that has good intent, but also unaccounted for consequences, and ultimately should be slightly changed or reworked.
I'll start this off with a story for context. Awhile back, I was playing normals, and it quickly became one of those fiesta games where everyone from both teams are teasing each other in /all chat after a hilarious 5v5 teamfight broke out at level 1. Later on in the game, after the enemy Ezreal barely died in a 1v1 mid lane, the following exchanges were said:
Teammate: "bad gg" Ezreal: "o. :( leaving then bye" Me: "no don't leave :( You might be a %%%got, but you're my %%%got <3"
I was promptly banned for two weeks.
At first I thought the system auto-caught me, so I contacted support. They told me that although they agree I didn't mean it maliciously, Riot has a "zero tolerance policy on homophobic slurs". Never before had I been warned, chat restricted, or banned in my 4+ years of playing League. By all definitions, I am not a toxic player. For simply using the word '%%%got', in what I intended to be a wholesome joke, I was placed into the same pool of players who full on flame others, intentionally run it down mid, AFK after first blood, or troll others - and continue to do so after being warned/banned by Riot. The entire game had this sort of "teasing each other tone", which continued on well after I said this. It's a common joke that Ezreal is gay, which is what I was referencing. I wasn't calling the player a %%%got, I was referencing the champion. It'd be no different than saying "You might be a lonely sad mummy, but you're my lonely sad mummy <3". The ":(" and "<3" further suggests that it wasn't in a flaming matter.
Another, even more extreme example:
After I was banned, I told my IRL friends about it. A few days later, one of my friends decided to test out the zero tolerance policy in action by reporting a teammate of his who had used the word %%%got. Shortly after, he got the "a player you reported has been banned" message, and, by checking the account activity, we confirmed it was a two week ban. What was the* horrendous flaming* that his teammate had said to deserve a full two-week ban? Surely, he must have typed up quite the storm, giving his full piece of mind about just what he thought about their "Diamond" 0/3 Jhin. He must have really blew up on him to deserve a full two week ban, right? Well, you're partially correct. After giving up first blood to an invade, his teammate absolutely exploded into the chat by typing:
"fuck, i'm such a %%%got sorry"
The point is, context matters. Don't get me wrong, people who intentionally use homophobic slurs to insult and flame others should be fully punished. However, Riot should revise their policy so that using the word, regardless of intent or context, doesn't always result in an instant two week ban, especially if the player has never been disciplined before. Or, allow cases to be reviewed on a case-by-case basis, rather than a "sorry, zero tolerance" approach to all bans regarding usage of slurs. Or, just take context into account when banning and/or deciding the severity of punishment.
I think it's clear that these two examples were not deserving of full two week bans - the same severity for people who actively try to ruin games for others through flaming or trolling. Perhaps some sort of punishment was needed, but not this harshly. Riot's goal for punishments is for reform, not straight out banning because it doesn't solve the root problem. I, and I'm sure the other guy, didn't even know Riot had a zero tolerance policy on this, and if they did, that it extended to jokes and self deprecating apologies. A simple warning message would have been just as effective on impacting on my future use of the word as the two week ban did. The difference is, the two week ban lead to unfair frustration, feeling as if I was being overly-punished for something I didn't even know was against the rules. God even knows how my IRL friend's teammate felt, getting banned for the horrendous thing he said.
It's extremely frustrating that doing something like this triggers an instant two-week ban, while you can blatantly and intentionally flame your teammates (on stream, no less), with videos showcasing it delivered right to Riot's doorstep via the front page, and still remain unbanned. Hashinshin examples (I'm sure there's more, but that's what I found with 30 seconds of searching): [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7]
Tyler1 also took forever to get banned, with the same front-page attention, and his flaming/AFKing/intentionally feeding being arguably worse.
I think we can all agree these have way more toxicity behind them and deserve a two-week ban exponentially more than someone offhandedly using the word '%%%got' ever will.
If Riot doesn't want to rework their policy, I'd love some transparency on how they feel about cases like these. Nonetheless, I'd love to hear your thoughts below, and if nothing comes from this, at least you now know to never say '%%%got' in game, no matter what. Period.
TL;DR: Riot instant two-week bans anyone who says the word '%%%got' in game, regardless of context or intent. These bans are not eligible to be reviewed on a case-by-case basis due to Riot's zero tolerance policy on homophobic slurs. Riot has good intentions behind this zero tolerance policy, but it ends up with the side effect of punishing undeserving players. I suggest they update the zero tolerance policy to only harshly punish players who use homophobic slurs intending to cause harm, instead of just anyone who says one offhandedly.