Daily PSA: If you tell someone they're trash, you're doing YOURSELF a disservice.

Mister Punches·11/25/2016, 7:30:29 PM·8 votes·2,719 views

Daily reminder to the toxic members of the community that telling someone they suck and constantly berating them will make YOU lose, as well as them. I know I'm not good at League, but if someone tells me I suck at the game and spends the rest of the game berating me for it, expect me to mute you, report you, and also perform poorly as a result. I have seen and been games that are going extremely well, then one toxic player on the losing team decides to make one of their teammates feel like crap, then the entire game just goes downhill from there. The postgame chat doesn't get pretty either.

I don't do well with negative reinforcement, and telling someone they suck is just that: Negative reinforcement. I see people complaining about their teammates a lot on these forums, and 9 posts out of 10, it's usually because of the OP's attitude. Telling someone they suck because they made one bad play is going to make them suck even more. If you want to lose, or have your team do poorly, then continue berating your teammates. If you don't want that to happen, then don't make your support feel like crap for let's say killing a minion. Or don't make your jungler feel like crap for trying to get from one lane to the other, or your adc for dying, or ANY role. In fact, don't make anyone feel like crap.

So, toxic players, please do yourself, as well as everyone else in the community a favor, and DON'T type out toxicity in the chat. You can easily spend that 5-10 seconds thinking of what to do for your next moves or you could even scream at your computer or squeeze a stress ball to vent your frustrations. It is extremely easy to get mad at someone for making a bad play in this game. It's a lot harder to not insult them because of it. Be the bigger person and do the hard part and not insult them. It makes the community a better place to be in, and it makes it a LOT easier for the game to be fun.

The one thing I notice all the time in this community and in real life is that the community is viewed as extremely toxic. There's a club on the campus I'm studying at, and the most common thing I have heard from a lot of the members of that club is that the community is toxic. Even in the forums here and ingame, people complain that the community is toxic. So, as the old adage goes: If you have nothing nice to say, don't say it.

Edit: Some of the posts here not only reinforce my claim that the majority of this community is toxic, but is confirming it.

13 Comments

Musiicy11/25/2016, 7:43:58 PM5 votes

I feel you so much man, but sadly, if "those people" lack the minimal self-control skills required to NOT start typing mean things ... Well then, it means they have:

  • low IQ
  • average life / personality
  • high, and fragile ego (for some mystical reason)

Plus, they're behind a screen. They talk mean to you ? that just keeps them in their spiraling habit of letting all their bad energy out on a random player, and I insist on using the word player instead of person, because they're obviously totally forgetting (or ignoring) the existence of any human interaction when hidden behind a screen.

To sum it up: You can't ask self-righteous nerdos to stop being cocky, for the simple reason that** they lack the capability of putting themselves in question**.

And, they're edgy, they're thugs, etc.

Morality Coach11/25/2016, 9:38:59 PM2 votes

My first Judo coach was this big fat powerlifter girl who beat the hell out of me every day and made fun of me. It's nice to have high quality positive college athletics level sports psychology, but negative reinforcement works also well as long as you aren't a big softie.

Work on not being a softie then you will get motivated by a stern rebuke instead of offended.

Wonderlands11/25/2016, 7:32:00 PM2 votes

If you're just gonna mute me and report me, then do that instead of posting this. Does it really matter since you're using /mute anyway?

Wiggle Dat Butt11/25/2016, 11:35:00 PM2 votes

Yet another shit post about how "offended" someone gets in league because they are little whiny Hillary voters. What a joke. I say berate the shit out of people, and for those of you who get berated for being awful at this game-- improve your play and use it as motivation to not get berated anymore.

Just because you are shit at this game doesn't mean people should have to cater to you and baby you and pat you on the back and tell you it's okay. Losers don't get trophies except in elementary school. Man up, grow a sack, and let's become a stronger community.

BigBellBrute8/20/2018, 11:48:54 PM1 votes

Calling anyone trash is insulting one's self because the elo computer in matching you with them or against them must have thought that someone was equally trash.

Damagefox11/25/2016, 9:31:20 PM1 votes

I am unfortunately in the same boat. I try my best, but the easiest way to tilt me is to berate me over mistakes. I know I suck at league, I spend more than enough time tearing myself down (i really shouldnt) But the last thing I need is a teammate with an overinflated ego telling just how "trash" I am at the game every 5-10 seconds. And then these same players will turn around and wonder why I am not drastically improving at the game (Their logic: "If I Berate you, degrade you, and tear you down. If I riddle you with insults and flames. Thats me trying to Motivate you. If i tell you how complete garbage you are, maybe you will realise it and play better")

My games are trash, I play like trash...because you stress me out by telling me how trash I am every 10 seconds

BlankNeverLose428/20/2018, 9:49:38 PM1 votes

yeah, I know what you mean dude. it's like, I'm willing to listen if anyone has anything to tell me that I do wrong. but some people just choose to jump at my every mistake and call me noob etc. I don't get the point of it. I don't feel the need to vent my anger towards others, even though I might see them making mistakes. sometimes I can't help it also. I can't really deal with yasuo mostly, for whatever reason. so I usually lose the lane. then, I tell myself - there must be a way to take this guy. so I keep trying. but the amount of damage he does... even to a tank.... it's incredible. you can't also get him via an adc, and he can also poke you to oblivion with his whirlwind if you do play one. so I don't really know what to do. just... people keep telling me I'm a noob. I'd die twice and then be crowned as a noob. I knew those were mistakes, and why, and I did mess up. but, y'know, it's just a game. it also kinda makes me not really want to play anymore.... but I will, Just need to get good at it.