The Branding Fallacy
_The Toxic Branding Fallacy _
The word "Toxic" is thrown around more than wwjd in a catholic courthouse. This is toxic, that's toxic, he, she, they are all toxic. What does that mean? That these players just wake up thinking how they're going to intentionally ruin someone's game? Excuse the language, but that mentality is bullshit. No matter how much of a pessimist you may or may not be, no one is toxic.
We, as humans, are innately good, not evil. Yes, we do bad things as a species but we do those bad things for one or two of many reasons. In the context of league we may afk because we don't feel like anyone cares about what we have to say, or that our teammates don't want us there. We may "Rage" because someone did something to upset us within the game and we need to vent within the game. The list goes on and on, but the point is, as a community, we need to stop outcasting each other and branding people as toxic. The only thing that behavior causes is to make that player feel further alienated, causing he or she to feel as if they must carry on under the brand you have assigned them. This is a mistake that both the community and Riot Games makes by informing banned players that they are within the lowest percentile of players toxic enough to be banned. We're all the same in that we all feel frustrated, isolated, and sometimes genuinely hurt by the actions of others, even online. If you want a better community, stop branding. Start understanding. ================ EXAMPLE ================ For example, imagine Summoner 1 feeding a kill top lane, Summoner 2 is flamming Summoner 1 for feeding. Summoner 3 decides to step in. If Summoner 3 says, "Shut the **** up Summoner 2, you're toxic as ****." Wouldn't Summoner 2 act even more irrationally? Wouldn't he feel as though he has to act within the context of a toxic player now that he's been branded as one?
If Summoner 3 says, "Calm down everyone, we're doing fine" Summoner 2 may or may not stop flaming, but he won't feel like he's being called out, he won't feel threatened, and he won't feel as though he has to continue his attitude just to fit the label we've branded him as. ================ ======= ================
TL;DR: Stop branding others as toxic. It makes the problem worse.