if you cant handle online chats then dont play online games
If you can't handle online games with their own well-enforced rulesets, then don't play those specific online games.
if you have a player playing like trash, goes negative 10 kda, support does more dmg, etc, someones need to tell him thats hes sucks.
No, nobody needs to tell them that they suck. They likely already know they're on the shitty end of the stick, and don't need their team bearing down on them.
dont take it personal, just use it as motivation to get better.
That is the single least motivational thing I can think of. Maybe, rather than try to claim that insults and shit talk are "motivational", try to actually come up with something genuinely motivational to say? Because, if the only motivational thing you can think to say is "you suck", you don't know what motivation is.
And I know what's coming next - "well I always take it on the chin and prove the person wrong" etc. etc. - well, good for you buddy. You somehow translate insults into encouragement. That doesn't mean everybody else is capable of the same thing.
Some people (most human beings, really) need positive motivation. Words of genuine encouragement. Some rare few people (like yourself) can somehow subsist on negativity. Then there are those like me who motivates himself enough that nobody needs to try to encourage me.
Besides that, though, your negative "encouragement" isn't welcome in League anyhow. The game has rules against negativity and insults.
but when Player A goes negative 10, then Player B thats has a pefect KD has everyright to call player A on his poor play.
No, Player B does not. That's like saying you go to pottery class, make a crappy, lumpy bowl, while the guy next to you made a smooth, elegant pitcher. Does that mean the guy who made that amazing vase has every right to take a sledgehammer and demolish your work?
(the answer, by the way, is no.)
Just because someone is doing better than someone else doesn't give that first person the right to be an asshole.
this is highly competitive game where players get caught in the moment. if you ever play any competitive sports in high school. its the same way. if you are costing the game, then you are going to get shit on.
Competition does not itself breed anger or toxicity. They're not mutually exclusive, by any means, but they're not one in the same, either. You can have competition without someone throwing a nuclear-level shitfit. You can have competition where people aren't being assholes to each other over small mistakes.
Trying to use the competitive nature of a game as an excuse for people being assholes is a weak excuse.
I cant imagine a grown man whining about someone being mean during a match to one of their peers.
And do you see any grown men whining about that at all? 'Cause I don't.
On the flip side, I can't imagine a grown man complaining about rules in a videogame being enforced, but, I've seen a handful by now.
