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DaKz·3/13/2016, 2:03:55 PM·4 votes·778 views

So I like this girl and wanted to take her to prom but the thing is I've never said a word to her irl in my life even though we have had classes. I messaged he on Facebook asking who she was going to prom with she responded with "Me." I asked what that means and she responded with "I'm going by myself :-) "then I said Ah ok soooo am I getting curved or should I still ask her or do I not even know her well enough to be asking I don't even know anymore I might just give up this is the first time I've tried talking to a girl all 4 years of high school in this is my last year I hope she didn't tell me off cause liking someone for 4 years and get tying told off is kinda a depressing thought I really don't get how girls work probably why I've never has a gf or let along touched a girl lol I'm super shy and kinda quiet so this whole messaging thing has me flustered even though I haven't said 1 word to her yet starting to think this forever alone stuff is real hopefully I still have a chance I don't know if she's telling me to get lost or hinting to ask cause she's not going with anyone or if I'm just I've thinking it

13 Comments

Zonkman3/13/2016, 2:47:55 PM5 votes

Honestly I've learned through my history with girls that as long as you're at least silver 4 you can get any girl you deem worthy of talking to you

Billy VoHagen3/13/2016, 4:54:04 PM3 votes

It's your senior year. Just ask her. She says yes, nice, you got a girl to make out with/( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) .

She says no, oh no, you're embarrased for, what, a month and a half till school is over?

alasarcher3/13/2016, 2:06:02 PM2 votes

Just ask her [zombie-nunu-hearts]

VictoryDance963/13/2016, 2:45:02 PM2 votes

Yeah just ask her. I know there is the huge amount of pressure building up as you prepare to ask her and all that, but if you do ask it will feel good to get it off your chest. Even if she says no, it is just better to know that to just kill yourself with the possibility that she would have accepted. Take the opportunity that life offers you! There is no better time to start talking to girls, especially with college right around the corner.

Skorpio3/13/2016, 4:00:18 PM2 votes

That's one hell of a run on.

Curious Kat3/13/2016, 8:51:54 PM1 votes

BRUH it never hurts to ask! suck it up, buy some flowers, say something nice, ASK HER, even if she says no, OH WELL, you didn't die did you? at the end of the day at least you'll know you flattered her! xD

And yeah, do it face to face, not over facebook, come on now, don't hate me for saying it but, grow a pair lmao xD

Don't live your life knowing you could of asked her, and she could of gone with you, but you didn't ask so you would never know. Since you are still young, it's best to get that into your head for when you can actually takes girls on expensive dates and when they really are bomb shells.

You never know, but the worse thing is actually never finding out what could of been! Life advice man!

J E B A ł T E D3/13/2016, 8:52:59 PM1 votes

Wait.. how can you still be this timid as a senior? just ask her bro

DaKz3/13/2016, 2:04:18 PM1 votes

Bump

Feeding Kog3/14/2016, 5:38:00 AM1 votes

If you have never talked to her before, its safe to assume she is going to say no. She wants to go to prom with someone she knows.

However, you need to grow a pair in college. Just talk to girls about dumb shit like dogs or work, and always try to emotionally be on their level about the subject. Act like you hate their job like they do, or act like u love fukin justin timberlake like she does. Its not rocket science. Theres your icebreaker, invite them out WITH you after your done talking with them, never ask them what they want to do cuz thats lame in their views, its fucking retarded but whatever. Tell her that she is pretty and you like her. Play stupid games like going into fake kiss her or holding her hand or whatever. They end.

Or you can go to backpage and get a hooker, whatever works.

Grashnim3/13/2016, 2:10:43 PM1 votes

First off, facebook, what is that nonsense? Buy her some flowers, tell her something sweet, ask her to prom. If you never ask, you'll always wonder.

In the end, the best advice you can get is the advice you think of, because that's who you really are. In the end, you want her dating you.

DaKz3/13/2016, 2:46:36 PM1 votes

Bump

WadeWilson13373/13/2016, 2:50:53 PM1 votes

Dont ask a girl to prom over facebook lol. You need to ask her in person, preferably making a show out of it. Flowers at the very least and surprising her. If she says no, yeah, itll hurt a bit more. However asking a girl to prom isnt about the guy at all, sorry to inform you but thats the way it is. You should focus on making it memorable as if she would automatically say yes. If you show her you have guts and care about her, then go for it. Or you could do what every other high school teenage boy does and send one of your friends or her friends to scout info as if you were 12.

BUDDHISTINK3/13/2016, 4:00:30 PM1 votes

Here's what I've learned about "girls"... dont sweat it man. It's not as big of a deal as you think it is, some will like you some won't. Someone not liking you isnt the end of the world. Be yourself my dude.