How do people make friends... Literally everyone is a jerk.
How are people happy... Life is shitty, there is nothing really to look forward to.
How do people get good at things. No matter how much time i put into any activity, i'm always mediocre.
Lots of other depressing stuff.
How do people make friends... Literally everyone is a jerk.
dunno, that just sort of happens - and most people really aren´t jerks if you get to know them.
How are people happy... Life is shitty, there is nothing really to look forward to.
live in the moment, accept that most things are beyond your control...accept yourself (though that one really takes time)
How do people get good at things. No matter how much time i put into any activity, i'm always mediocre.
it´s a mixture of talent, enjoying sth, routine and experience.
Lots of other depressing stuff.
yea well, life happens (and yet it´s a wonderful thing)
Not everyone is a jerk. I find maybe 2 nice people on average per game, you just have to be the talker on your team. Life isn't that bad, it'll get better. You're probably better than you think. It's the bad people who think they're super good. For the 4th one, you should look into seeing a doctor, you might have depression. If you do, things will start feeling better once you get your medicine. If you don't, then this sadness is just temporary.
You ok there buddy?
How do people make friends... Literally everyone is a jerk.
How are people happy... Life is shitty, there is nothing really to look forward to.
How do people get good at things. No matter how much time i put into any activity, i'm always mediocre.
Lots of other depressing stuff.
The online environment tends to show a lot of "jerks" as you call them because of the anonymity barrier. But there are a lot of nice ppl too!
Life is what it is man. you can focus on all the negativity and make yourself miserable or you can focus on the good stuff and be thankful for that. some little examples: You post here, which means you have access to a computer and you are able to read and write. Are you hungry? Do you have a family? Do you live in a safe place?
Each and everyone of us here on earth is born with a set of gifts. Those determine what you are good at. you need to find out what your gifts are and then focus on developing your natural strengths. Gaming might not be yours (definitely isnt mine). You have to also accept that you can not be good at everything. (btw, just because you do not succeed in gaming, drawing or whatever does not mean that you can not enjoy those things as a recreation).
there is tons of depressing stuff, i agree. BUT there is a shit ton of good stuff too. And life is what you make it, soldier!
You want it to be better? MAKE IT SO!
Purely from my own experience:
- How do people make friends... Literally everyone is a jerk.
Very few people are jerks all the time. Start there. Typically, people aren't jerks to their friends at all.
- How are people happy... Life is shitty, there is nothing really to look forward to.
Start by being happy. The not-shitty life and things to look forward to tend to come as a consequence of that.
- How do people get good at things. No matter how much time i put into any activity, i'm always mediocre.
A combination of factors, including natural aptitude (some people are good because they just are), relevant comparable skills (some people are good because they've done similar things), and deliberate practice (some people are good because they put a lot of work into being good).
- Lots of other depressing stuff.
For every shitty, depressing thing in the world, there's at least one thing that is amazing and delightful. The trick is knowing how to recognize the awesome things, and take them for what they are.
1.How do people make friends... Literally everyone is a jerk.
2.How are people happy... Life is shitty, there is nothing really to look forward to.
3.How do people get good at things. No matter how much time i put into any activity, i'm always mediocre.
4.Lots of other depressing stuff
2,3,4. There are a number of ways you can deal with this. I have been there before, trust me. The solution for me was not medication (as much as my family wanted me to get some). I had to find what made me happy and do alot of that, basically. If you are stuck in a rut like I was, then that probably isn't a bad place to start.
what this did for me was get my mind off the things that were making me sad. Its hard to want to "try" and its hard to want to do anything until you are happy. The human brain functions very poorly when depressed. If youre depressed your ability to learn new things and apply that knowledge is incredibly diminished. Another bonus of doing what makes you happy is that people are generally good at doing things that make them happy. And once youre happy your mind will be open to new ideas and new options. you need to WANT to get out of it. I want you to get out of it too.
Find what makes you happy, noone can tell you what that is.
Yes this life is shitty and full of fake people just waiting to stab you in the back, but that doesn't mean everyone is that way. you can be the person out of a million.. ignore those bad influences in your life, get them out of your head, they don't exist to you anymore, you are what matters. look foward on how you can improve yourself as a human being, do what you love to do not what you're being forced to do. we're all good at many things but we don't know it until we do it, you have to get up and DO IT. how else will you find out what you're good in man? depression is in the mind, its a prision cell holding you captive...the thing you dont know is you have the key to get out any time you want.
during highschool i worked hard for the things i had and have now. all my friends always wanting something from me or just hanging out with me because of the things i had and the things i made available to them. until i realized how fake many of those people were and how much drama they wanted to attract. i completely isolated myself from all those type of people. after highschool, till today, i keep only a small group of friends who i really consider friends. the rest are just people i know, people who i have to work with or just people i say hi once in a while but not "friends". you can't fully trust anyone man, that's why you have to be independent and make things happen on your own. the only people you should really really really trust is your partner and family, and even then you have to be careful. i went through that stage and it's ugly, but that's life and life is only as good as you make it.
i really hope you find what you're looking for. don't be afraid to open your arms to people but just remember to be careful and not get overly attached. don't take life as a bad thing because it truly isn't. so many experiences just waiting for you... you just have to get up and do it man. goodluck man and stay lifted!
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people see it as a joke, but he's just giving people advice on how HE became successful.
Bruh, I think you need some citalopram.
