Surrender or Play?
##Backstory
I just finished a game that ended in a loss. Let's just say it didn't go well. All of your lanes lost pretty bad and I, the jungler, wasn't doing to well either. Let's just say we were all doing poorly. Now, where it gets interesting is that our Thresh was getting a little bit mad and wanted to surrender at 20. 20 minutes came and so did the surrender vote. I said no along with 2 others. At that point, Thresh quit. Following that ordeal, our Ahri started getting mad and wanted to surrender as well. Again, a surrender vote came and I said no along with 1 other. This is when Ahri started getting even more mad because she didn't want to keep playing a losing battle. I told her that I understood and if she wanted to quit, she could. Her and the Tristana who was also angry told me that I was a selfish, self-centered %^*@# for not surrendering. Eventually, we lost and in the post-game screen, I had a discussion with Ahri as to why I don't like surrendering. We eventually gave up trying to convince each other and went our separate ways. But this got me thinking.
##Point of View
Ahri's Point of View: I play to outplay my enemies and to practice the game. If we end up doing bad, I would much rather surrender and play a new game rather than stay in this game and keep losing. I find it a waste of time. The fact that Nasus (Me) wouldn't surrender is making me waste my time. He's making everyone sit through this while he "has fun".
My Point of View: I play to... well... play. If I win, great! If we end up losing, then that kinda sucks. But I would much rather stay in the game and make the best out of the situation rather than end the game and be mad about it. The fact that Ahri wanted to surrender is making me sad as there is always something you can do or learn in any game, no matter how bad we're doing.
I'm sure there are some of you who have been in a game where you or other team mates want/don't want to surrender. I'm just curious to know how you guys feel about this topic. Who do you agree with? Honestly, I couldn't care less if I was in the wrong. I'll own up to it if that's the case. Is there a way that players in it to win it and players who want to enjoy the game can mesh together without heated arguments? Is that even possible?