Divorce Is Around Us
This Subject discussion Post is more to support those people in the community Divorce. I hope anything I could share will be helpful. I know before I begin, there are no answers I could ever share.
Some time back recently within two months, there was a human being inside of the Riot League of Legends Boards Community posting about ("My Parents Are Getting A Divorce"). I very much wanted to comment, but was unsure of what any ounce of knowledge I own could ever mean anything to this Human Being. At first I was excited to take the time and maybe research the divorce subject matter, since I was already at a public library.
Then as I glanced at the section assigned within the dewy decimal system and perceived the quantity of books collected in the public library about divorce; I was compounded with a complex intellectually. What? At the same time I might be happy for the quantity for the amount of research material on the subject of Divorce; however, with the shred of empathy I own around the subject of Divorce I am intellectually conflicted since this is not the full complete collection of every Divorce book created, also considering I have never met this person I have 100% zero idea of the sort of information of support they could ever want to try to understand or own to help them heal and build inside of their parents divorce. How could I ever find the information they might want to receive or hear for the answers to the questions they own? There is when I turned more to a disheartened state of being for this human being. I have just witnessed a level of empathy of wanting to know more, but to actually locate the specific truths this human being is exploring as they experience new attitudes or sides resonating about their existence, made me relive some pain in terms with my life.
At first my initial goal was to try and share some insight or thoughts to this human being experiencing their parents going through a divorce. Then as I stare down intellectually and with strength inside of myself, I decide; there is more than one book created to help those people own their writer's platform in discussing Divorce. Which, concludes there is more than one opinion of thought along with more than one perspective of substantial information. My strength immediately phases into an intellectual debate almost fighting for Truth. Innately, I know this is not my fight. As a community support, I continue to wrestle with the intellectual thoughts about divorce. How could there ever be an expert with Divorce? Not a question I want answered.
My goal continues to be to help and support this human being experiencing their parents going through a divorce. Knowing I have no answers to share, and not because I decided to not conduct research, but due to the fact alone as a bottom line for my goal to share. Glancing at the collection of books about divorce, how could anyone qualify to be the expert in my life? So, how could I qualify a valid divorce expert for any other person? Not due to the lack of credentials I own in this area, but maybe more due to the fact defining my line of Communication Process Ethics Code Of Conduct.
If there is anything I could share, I would want to mention: <> not all conflicts are needing counseling or therapy <> if participating in counseling, then remember you are not at fault for the divorce, and counseling should maintain along the chronological time frames of 2015; since there could be a counseling reach to try and history dig into any one person's past for Subjective thought conclusions camouflaged in family history and the long scenic road trip through counseling to help affirm for you historical facts, concepts, and affirmations the human being in 2015 could conclude in private counsel homework time (while also keeping the counseling time to a minimum rather than lure fish for more counseling time to honest facade indirectly through direct tactics in fishing for historical side tangents to counsel, when the person was only there to counsel about the divorce in the first place) {{{yes I own this Empathy around counseling, and being a victim to therapy misdirected time and financial pool their clients unethically to counsel more about myself then maybe I EVER should Have participated in!}}} Stay On Course If Receiving Counseling Therapy! <> not all therapy should be defined as the traditional mode of therapy being more successful than maybe a religious community support group housed at a church or temple and usually all are welcome to participate to help support one another <> You are as unique as the day your parents created you, and defining yourself along with designing the person you hope to define yourself to exist as, continues to be the same quest for acknowledgement in life; while maybe a close support family system restructures how the family wants to define themselves as since the parents are the two people who began and created the family you are a member of in the first place <> if I could not find the specific answer for this human being in a collection of writer's books at a public library, then please know how Alright life will continue to exist around you should you maybe never find the answer to the question or answers to the questions you could ever be looking for, since not all people could maybe ever define themselves as close to you in trust and Life Validation Details about your life <> hearing bout people experiencing a divorce in any of the roles, please try to remember Divorce or hearing about Divorce can at times affect all of us, or at least those people where hearing about Divorce affects them, some people illustrate themselves differently than others
I am without an ounce of Empathy with any level of counsel in discussing Divorce between two parents; and will specify a male and a female since the relationship of my parents is qualified as such. I am 100% with Toxic Parenting Relationship Experience, another FACT about me! Another level of Empathy maybe not too many people own, or have conducted any research on. How? My parents decided to stay together for the sake of their children, which, is not truly the most healthy choice for All parents to make. Some can make the decision to stay together for the sake of their children work or coordinate Far beyond any glimpse of the amount of healthy luster my parents fell short in displaying to us kids, or their children, let alone towards anyone in the external social community outside of our family. Almost as if illogically forcing two magnets with the same poles to connect and create the false facade publicly, when science owns the bottom line fact of knowledge proven, Two magnets with the same poles will never connect together, Ever!
Since my dad had experienced a divorce in his life {before I am born and before Civil Rights or Woodstock}, the reasoning and logic for my parents to stay together for the sake of their children is concluded with those lines of thought. Interesting in growing up and living close to Toxic Poisonous Contaminate family roles all of my family owned, compared to the healthy families never experiencing or owning unhealthy family roles beyond the {son, daughter, mother, father, sibling}.
In terms of Toxic Communication Process Experience, my life is in volumes surpassing the volume amounts in encyclopedias, and in some of the best writer collection of Toxic family experiences. This is only a fact, not a bragging piece. Also a reference towards the empathy revolving around Toxic Communication.
From: FuryofThornsRedo