How am I not supposed to get reported as a jungler main.

So I have been a jungler main quite a while...and honestly im sick of getting stacking reports every single loss as a jungler main...it tears at your soul and makes me almost want to uninstall its so goddamn stressful. No matter what, its always your fault. ALWAYS.

Dont give my second blue to a feeding midlaner who is down a disgusting amount of cs and kills? Reported. Dont gank hyper aggressive duo q bot lane after you tell them repeatedly to not do something so they think they know better? Reported. Decide not to gank top because your mid and bot have been a gold mind of easy kills for you to gank? Oh...guess what apparently i was a "noob jungler gg lel", afk and guess what...get reported. EVERY...fucking. LOSSS its just like what the fuck is the point of playing this game after a while when even when I do my job, i still get fucking blamed.

Every person relies on you to not be a moron. And even then.... its like I cant actually do anything to save the player from himself. What does ganking top for a nasus player result in? 180 cs and 200 stacks on nasus at 40 minutes. My hands are tied...but dont worry, reported...why? Because I didnt gank for a guy 40 cs down at 10 minutes who refused to either slow or even engage when I did go up. What exactly am I supposed to do? Do I just eat reports every single game?

edit: for some reason im remembering this because this drove me nuts.... in a 5 to 1 kill game my mid oriana decides to get up and afk because "jungler no ganks gg"....while i was 1/0/4 and the enemy jungler was 0/0/0....