Toxicity. Rito plz.

I just got done playing a game as Vladimir. I had explicitly stated multiple times that as soon as i got a spirit visage, i would start split pushing. Once I did it, my team decided to constantly engage 4v5 and they would lose, then i would back, defend until they got up, then go back to split pushing. And we were not getting engaged on, we were consistently engaging on them without their strongest player there. Then at the end of the game Everybdoy blamed me as being the catalyst for our loss. Here are a few things they were throwing at me and I would like to present my argument against them. 1.) Towers are not the only things that decide whether you won lane or not. Towers WILL fall. Period. As a vlad (in mid lane) versus an Azir, there wasn't a whole lot I could do to stop him from pushing. So yes, he pushed harder and got more damage on my tower. TLDR; Towers dont determine whether you win lane. Farm, Experience, and Gold do. PERIOD. 2.) If someone is split pushing and you don't take advantage of that pressure properly, that is YOUR fault, NOBODY elses. That's it, that's all I got. Once I saw the split pushing wasn't working, I SHOULD have grouped back up, yes. But does that mean that it's alright to blame one person when everybody fucked up in someway? Please post your opinions here. Also, I was pretty angry after it happened. But i'm not stupid, so I just went ahead and muted them all. Nothing happened to me.