Well the original build that I had built back in 2012, that had a 550ti in it, which lasted me up until last august. I couldn't afford an upper end card, so I bought a 750ti, and it worked great for me, but it is starting to go out, and eventually I might branch out to more games, just don't have the time for it really. If I had 1400 bucks to throw around, I would gladly get an ultrawide and a 970, but i don't mind 1080p since I mostly play league, and other games similar to it in graphics. I also just a few months ago bought 2 new 1080p monitors to replace my crappy entry level Acer ones, but even still, they are good enough for my liking. And too with VR, I won't get into that until it becomes better.
But yeah, thats why I was thinking the 960, but on amazon currently, the 960 is $200, and the 970 is $250. So either one would be perfectly fine, just depending on what I want really. but either one would be perfect.