How do I prevent insta-tilt when playing something non-traditional but good?

I've been trying to learn AD jungle malz. I've done a ton of research on item efficiency for their niche on him and I've played bot game until I've mastered his tricky first clear. But when I lock him no matter what I say to help the situation i get instant rage, trolling, or people strong-arming me into going mid by locking WW smite. What do?