How Long till a person can comfortably move on

BigfootNamedYeti··2 votes·443 views

So recently my girlfriend (of about a year)and i broke up and i wanted to hear your opinions on how long i should wait to attempt to move on and i figured talk to the people i enjoy the most the people i play league with. Also if i were to move on i can't decide which girl i should ask out because well i'm indecisive so if yall could help also if anyone wants to get a game in that'd be nice too.

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MackleDoge4 votes

Move on as soon as you're comfortable, never before. No need to be in any rush, take your time with things like that in life and avoid rash decisions. If you feel like you want to be in a relationship then it's alright to go ahead and move on whenever you are ready.

As far as your situation specifically, I can't offer much advice without knowing age and what you're are looking for in your life right now. As an example, I'm 21 working part time and in my last year of college. I'm single and glad that I'm that way, because I don't think I personally have the time to invest into a relationship. But that is just me. I'd go with the girl that I know the most about and felt the most comfortable around. If the girl in English seems to be interested in you try asking her out for coffee or try to start up a conversation. If the girl in Math doesn't seem to be interested, why is that? Do you two just not talk? Does she seem really preoccupied?

What matters most is your comfort with where you are in life and what you believe will make you the happiest. Take risks, make gambles, but always make sure that when you are, you're doing those things to make you happy and you're doing them with a solid conscience and a clear, calm head.

Water of Eden1 votes

Pretty sure this guy deserves a item 2009

MackleDoge1 votes

I accept your baked good.

BigfootNamedYeti1 votes

Thanks man as to my age im 19 in my second year of college but thanks man i appreciate the advice

MackleDoge1 votes

No problem, glad to help. Given that information, I'd advise you seriously consider the amount of time and work load you have invested in your college career, and evaluate whether or not you think you have the time to invest into a relationship. Whether a relationship is serious or just frivolous, it will still consume a significant portion of your time and energy. If you feel you can be responsible and have a mature relationship with someone, where they understand that you have responsibilities as it relates to your education and/or work, then there isn't any harm in exploring that sort of thing in your life. Either way, regardless of what you decide, I wish you the best of luck!

Lady Luck1 votes

"Moving on" doesn't need to involve getting with another girl. It can simply be enjoying being single and no longer "stuck" on your thoughts of her. There's value in being single. Don't go into a relationship just because. Be sure of who you are when not involved with anybody else. This is especially true after a longer relationship - it can be difficult to identify who you are as an individual and not just who you are as a boyfriend.

BigfootNamedYeti1 votes

Thank you to be honest today she came over and picked up all of her stuff and it was kinda hard to let her just walk out so i guess i still need a little bit of time thanks for taking the time to read this.

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