You guys ever have that friend who's incredibly hard to talk to?

Melledoneus·6/29/2016, 3:07:55 AM·1 votes·409 views

I don't mean the type of person who's annoying, or arrogant, or anything like that.

I mean the type of person who the habits or things you do, any of them could push their buttons and they get upset with you. And when they get upset, they go full "forget everything, I'm pissed now. Bye." The kind of person who you're scared to make upset, who you have to prepare yourself to even have a conversation for fear of actually doing or saying something stupid because you're used to people being more forgiving.

I don't know why I'm even posting this on the Boards. I recently made a friend like that (nobody on the Boards, don't start pointing fingers) upset with me, because of something I did that made him think I was being arrogant and dismissive. To be fair, I didn't realize it until it was too late, but now it's just eating away at me. I just wanted to write this to get it off my mind. It's a burden that I feel like if people know and can relate to, I can find some comfort in. If not, just leave a comment about a time when you made a friend upset and it bothered you.

I apologize if this seems like I'm wanting attention, it honestly isn't. I've tried to do everything else to get my mind off it, but now that I'm actually making a post to tell the world how I feel, I'm starting to feel a bit better. Hell, I actually smiled while I wrote that last sentence. Maybe now, after I make this post, I can finally get some sleep at 7:30 in the morning.

Any comments would be much appreciated. I just wrote this to get it all out, and hopefully I won't be so under the weather in a few hours.

8 Comments

TNHA Baritone6/29/2016, 3:16:14 AM1 votes

If you talk to someone and they are difficult and they piss you off when you make a mistake, delete them b/c real friends take the good and the bad :)

Laughing Fish6/29/2016, 3:29:18 AM1 votes

I have a family member like that. http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/580/655/1d2.gif

You can do one of two things: 1: of you care about them, just learn their triggers and try to work around them. 2: if you don't, just say haters gonna hate and do whatever the hell you want.

SoulOfTeemo6/29/2016, 3:38:40 AM1 votes

i have a (used to) friend that would get pissed off if you didnt agree with something they said, if you did bad, if you just pointed out something they did wrong. Im not friends with him anymore because of that.