At a bit of a loss with Ranked
So, help me out here. It turns out that ranks can still decay even though prizes have been dished out (thanks for the warning rito, I thought that didn't happen for now) but I decayed from Silver to Bronze 1 last night so I figured I would give ranked a go and claw my way back up to Silver. Game started out great, Ez+ my Sona bot, Ez got fed easily. Then....two, eventually three of my team mates started arguing over chat to the point that they threw the entire game over a rather large early/mid game lead. So great, -16LP and sinking deeper into Bronze. Even became the target of one player because I wasn't "Warding enough" when leaving base without an escort essentially meant getting jumped and insta-gibbed as they had full control over our jungle at that point.
Look, this isn't a Deer Diary thing for me. I haven't won a single ranked match since my placement matches because of this kind of arguing/throwing in every single match. I'm at a complete loss as to what I can do in this kind of situation. I try and be encouraging and nice to people while trying to get the team on track but for some reason people are content to openly loose a match because of a petty argument over chat.
I know my play isn't the best at times, I know I make mistakes, but I also have a firm grasp on mechanics, I go into every match with the full intent to give it my all and do my damnedest to win and I know I can carry given the chance (obviously Sona isn't the best carry in this case) The last day or so hasn't been the best gameplay of my life and my recent game history is far from impressive but I know from my personal history I'm perfectly capable of doing very well in most situations.
Aside from improving my game play what is there I can do. What do higher elo people do in these situations to potentially save the game or quell the growing problem? What can you do to carry the game (or attempt to)?
I know this probably sounds whiny but I'm frustrated and at a total loss with my ranked experiences. I shouldn't get better playing/acting teams in unranked solo que, more so I shouldn't have to report 3+/5 of my team every match and have repeated losses as a result of this kind of player behavior. I know it's easy to say "carry harder" but I really need some advice with this before things get worse.
~A baddie