How to get better without pissing people off?
I've been playing League for awhile now but I've never really escaped bronze/silver level of play. That's a guess-timation as I do not play ranked. (I don't 'like' ruining other players experiences) I started off and leveled my account to 30 via bot matches. That's a great tool (in my opinion) for learning the BASIC mechanics of the game or a new champion, for someone, who like me, was completely new to this genre of game. However, I think it can be universally agreed upon that coop vs ai games not only teach you bad habits, but can not and will not prepare you for actual regular SR games.
So, I started trying to play normals. I watched some youtube videos about general strategies, responsibilities of the various roles, champion mechanics, practiced farming in custom games, pretty much anything I, or any of my friends, suggested to prepare. It isn't enough. NOTHING IMO can substitute actually just playing and practicing the game.
I was super happy and excited about the tool we had for awhile to practice a new champ or role, but that game mode was (I guess abused? and) done away with. There hasn't really been a substitute since.
For obvious reasons I do not participate in ranked. I don't belong there. But, even when trying to play a normal SR once in awhile, I get flamed and trolled pretty hard for my lack of experience/knowledge/skill. I thought "normal" games were where you were SUPPOSED to practice to get ready for "real" games in ranked? So, why do people take them so seriously? What's the alternative for new or unskilled players to improve? "You suck so don't play here." Soooo, where should I/we be playing?
In addition to not having any fun myself getting trolled/flamed, the people doing the flaming must be pretty pissed off and having a bad experience too, to be exhibiting such behavior.
I'll play a normal once in awhile now... If I have 4 friends online I can form a premade with. That's fun. But, in the absence of that specific circumstance, I just stick with bot games, (that present literally 0 challenge) arams, or rotating game modes, which people tend to not take quite as seriously... usually.
Muting people is fine and dandy. I have the enemy team muted by default, and I use mute frequently. ((Side note, BLESS YOU RITO for adding the "mute ping" function. One of my FAVORITE improvements of all time!)) But that doesn't help you win games or "git gud". So, what are some ways you can think of to improve or practice without ruining other player's experience?
I'm just looking for advice from some more experienced players with where to go and what to do next. I'm not trying to piss people off by playing poorly. I simply don't know wth I'm doing and am trying to learn. I feel like I've gotten as much from the practice tool and bot matches as I'm realistically ever going to get, but I see no alternative.