So I'm getting crapped on in gold for sometimes the wrong reasons.

Okay, so sometimes it's legit a bad game for me, but I get anything from hail of blade nami support to first time graves jungle in this elo. I thought this was supposed to be a better elo? Bronze players were more evenly matched against each other than what I'm at now. I've been pubstomped 6 games in a row now all of a sudden. And the other thing is this meta makes no sense why are there mages in bot lane missing all their skillshots on my team... just play an adc and auto -.- I'm part of the problem, yes, I get that. But to have so many games in a row of just pure stompage i dunno. What should I do at this point with the meta being so unpredictable? I can't seem to adapt to all the weird shit going on right now.