I know the Mars hype is real
But moon bases make more sense first.
A lunar base would allow for low-gravity, no atmosphere launches and is rich in resources (water, helium, etc.). We could finally do some long term studies on the effects of microgravity before potentially condemning the first visitors to Mars, as rescue missions would take a while.
A Phobos base would have similar benefits-- resources that could be utilized to manufacture materials needed on the Martian surface, but for whatever reason would be complicated to manufacture under Martian conditions. The dust on Phobos could also be used for localized densification of the Martian atmosphere to allow for easier landings.
I know everyone wants to be the first to Mars, but there needs to be some practical thought to human expansion into the stars.