HELP!!! What should I do

Équinøxe·12/5/2017, 11:38:43 PM·1 votes·244 views

Idk if I can post my personal issues here... but I have a problem with my friends at school and I wish you guys can help. One of my best friends lied to me, more than once, and he disgusted me. We used to be very good friends(always sit together in class or play league at home blablabla), UNTIL, he has a girlfriend. I don't like him, I just want to be a normal friend with him, so I don't care if he has a girlfriend or not. Then I found a problem. He began to laugh at me when I failed, he makes jokes about me all the time, he never helps when I have a problem. Everything he cares about is his girlfriend. He laughed at me and my other friends because we are single. He said I'm ugly, compare to his girlfriend. Yesterday he said he had broken up with his girlfriend, looked sad. I tried to courage him to think something positive and forget about it. He laughed and walked away. And today, he DELETED me from his friend list is just because I tried to cheer him up under his post on Instagram. Because the broke up news was made up by him, this is how another boy told me. He disgusts all girls except the pretty ones and his girlfriend, and hope our girls can leave him alone. (oh, GGWP, hope you focus on that little bi*** every single second and fail your tests. <3) This is the end of our friendship I guess. What should I do? End it or save it?

3 Comments

WhiteUranium12/5/2017, 11:40:31 PM1 votes

He's toxic, and he doesn't look like he thinks of you as your friend. End it and don't look back.

Jo0o12/5/2017, 11:40:38 PM1 votes

Fixing any relationship requires the other party to have the emotional maturity necessary to actually understand where you're coming from and what you deserve from them. This guy doesn't sound like he has that capacity.

Rand0mH3r0X12/5/2017, 11:48:12 PM1 votes

Here's a word of advice from my personal experience Never stop making new friends. Some people will befriend you for a month or so. Some people will befriend you for life. Don't try to settle with the people who consistently try to patronize you.

I don't know anything about you personally, and don't post personal/indentifiable information about yourself.

For your personal situation, leave that dude alone. Let him find his own way to happiness. Worry about yourself first.